I hate to say it but I think you are right. I started to dislike playing non-WoW games with some of my friends because they would go into them (no matter the genre) as if they were raids, looking for guides to be most efficient etc.... but finding that out for myself is part of the fun for me. Like if we picked up say, Fallout 4 or Diablo, or Dark Souls, or whatever else ... some of my friends would already know the best guns or guilds or whatever before I even got out of the tutorial. Whats the point? You are basically just following a guide at that point.