Man, right out of the relic arguing back into the healers should dps arguing.
I think the "Healers should DPS" topic pops up at least once every two months. /cry
I go with the mindset of... I can't make others play the way I want them too, can't convince them to min/max to what I BELIEVE they should be doing, I can't assume I'm grouping with people that even understand the concept of playing to their max potential, to assume that everyone I run into should play as efficiently as I know I can play, is unreasonably hopeful and at the end of the day a way for me to ruin my own day by putting high expectations on people that come from varying game playing abilities, personalities, and even actual physical capabilities in general. **
** There was a guy who raided with some of our friends on another realm in WoW. He was hurt in Iraq and had slow motor skills, the group itself didn't really like taking them, but they did anyways. The static could have avoided him 100%. You know what couldn't avoid him? Duty Finder/LFR.
Knowing that everyone ISN'T me, and that I can't expect every person in DF to be a min/maxer or a savage, high end raider, helps me accept that if a healer isn't dpsing, that's okay as long as we aren't dying. Maybe his reactions suck in general and he's struggling just to heal. I don't know him, I don't know his abilities, I'm just happy that he does his job.
And yes some people don't like the "I lower my standards so I don't get disappointed!" logic, but if you're going to expect the best from every random person that you group with by the grace of god, you're just setting yourself up for failure and more disappointment than having a run go a whole 50 seconds faster.
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I was on the last Hilde fight and waited about an hour as a healer, the next day for my roullete, I got it randomly within a minute. XD