Originally Posted by
Kisho
I would say a nice compromise would be to have the LFD system, but only for your own server. With the way the servers are currently there appears to be a huge amount of people on each server, so queues shouldn't be an issue.
That said, the majority of people's complaints with LFD are because the community is shit. That's not really Blizzard's (or will be Bioware's) fault, is it? Let's be honest here: how many people that are saying no to LFD have gone out of their way to say more than 'hi' and 'bye' in each dungeon run they did in WoW? If you actually put the effort in and tried to be friendly, then maybe other people would do the same?
Sure, there's no consequences to being a dick when it's a cross realm thing, but there shouldn't need to be a punishment to prevent people from acting like tools. People should be nice to others, simply for the sake of being nice.
That mindset has to start somewhere, and in all honesty it can't come from Bioware. It has to come from us. LFD is an incredibly useful tool: when implemented in WoW it boosted the amount of dungeon runs immensely (anyone remember the 'not enough instances' spam in early 3.3? Yeah, that was because of LFD and how many more people were actually running dungeons). The tool itself is not evil. It does not kill communities by itself. The community does that to itself.
Take the effort to say more than 'hi' and 'bye'. Say more than the tactics. Don't rise to the bait of trolls who try to anger you. Just report them, votekick, and move on. If you want there to be a good community, then take the steps to create it yourself. Others will, in theory, see the effort you put in and do the same.