The human can see more than 30 fps, it's very subtle, but very noticeable with fluid explosions and action. Dark slow scenes will be hardly noticed but at an intense play rate it's very frustrating. It's more than a number.
As for the issue itself it may be the new maps, i remember when the game was in Closed Beta and had really big Frame rate issues before launch. You could try rolling back on drivers to a later version. Any frame rate issue will be dependent on your Video cards, Battlefield 3 was made to push cards to the limit at the current era.
with 64 player CQ maps it could be assumed its just the massive amount of players with the more detailed maps pushing the cards, other than that I can't imagine whats wrong.