I find myself in a very unfavorable position, and I don't know what to do about it.
I run in a 25 man raid and about 10 of those people are my real life friends.
The raid leader is not one of those friends, and does not intend to take me on any further raids if I do not switch to Affliction spec (I currently raid in Destro).
I cannot play Affliction worth a damn.