Ok enough with the rape stuff, it's too personal for some people to read about casually like that. Mmk?
No Mehmy, you don't get it. I'm one of those people it's personal for, and I know you guys don't mean it, but it really is painful to read some of that stuff. So that's why I ask for that. I'm sure I'm not the only one who would be affected by reading that stuff like that.
The typical 8th date nod is a hat with a bright, long feather.
It symbolizes that the beauty you have is ready for him if he waits long enough.
And that is only one feather and not even the entire wing or the swan (or other beautiful creature it belonged to) itself.
Exactly what you want.