A little real life scenario that i think pertains here.
I was in high school dating a girl, we used protection both condoms and birth control for her. I had a condom break and she got knocked up. I wanted an abortion and she didnt. Come to find out she had stopped taking her pills because she wanted to lose some weight. I didnt know until she was pregnant. I had no right to do anything. I lawyered up and he told me i was screwed because the laws are in a way that i have no rights until the child is born. We couldnt even set a court date until after the child was born. She decided then to go to court with no lawyer and was awarded child support, daycare and back medical bills without me even fetting a word in.
So a year goes by of her not letting me see the child but still begging for money on something i didnt want 18 years of never mind 9 months of pregnancy. She starts to lose in court so she takes off. Im now in $8000 worth of debt to my lawyer with no money left so i give up and just pay my support.
Eight years go by and the state decides to do a random check up. We go back to coirt and i ask for a continuance to obtain a lawyer. They dont consider it double my child support based on my pay to 150 a week and order me to pay half of after school activities. I lawyer up and after 6 months of continuances by her i win to get her locked up if she doesnt allow for visitations.
At this point she paniced and asked me to surrender my rights which I do under the condition i am not to be contacted.
Long story short i had no right to do anything but pay until she decided to let me go.
No man should be forcing abortion on a woman, but in turn no woman should force 18 years of parenting and support on a man. Major double standard here.
---------- Post added 2012-12-05 at 08:53 AM ----------
Someone please explain how this is a fair system.