Need some help here.Ex gf issues

[Fearnor]

The well known story,2 people break up they aren't talking and when they do,they are end up fighting or arguing. It was a distant relationship,that was really great between us. Until one day she broke up with me.Its been a while(more than a year) and almost all our contacts end in a fight.
People say that we still love each other and we hate the condition we are in atm.
But when I am trying to be nice and friendly she gets mad... After I ignored her she told me that we had to be friends,it didn't worked so well,we were fighting for no reason.(feels weird to talk to her,i think she feels the same way).
She gets so mad or upset for absolutly no reason. And when I told her we should stop talking the next day she replied that she had a bad day and she want to continue talk to me...then we fought again I told her to stop talking to me.
I saw her 4 days later I asked her if she agreed and she said what else can we do?i told her try to not be so annoyed and mad to each other.
She said that she wasnt,but I know her pretty well,she was mad.
I told her that she is mad.She didn't replied and she logged out.
Its been more than a year,why is she acting like this?I know its not the right place,but i think way too many people will see it and maybe someone will have an answer,because i cant find one!

[Dsfunctional]

How old are you?

[Chief Brouhaha]

Don't be friends with exes, you wont move on and if you do your next girlfriend will tell you to stop talking to her too.

[Somnios]

just stop talking and having contact with her, seems thats not good for both of you, just leave all stuff about her and the relationship behind you and move on.

[Deleted]

I know neither you nor your ex gf, so I really can't explain why she acts like that as there could be many reasons.
but to me it sounds as if it just does not work, no matter what you do or try to do. that sucks, but happens from time to time. it's sad, but sometimes it can't be helped. if I had to make any suggestions I'd say let go, stop any contact and move on, even if it's hard at the beginning.

[Deleted]

Sorry, i would like to halp but i cant read that WALL of text you have here...

Please use some linebreaks and spaces so i can get an idea of what you are saying.

[Demosus]

You are better off not talking...online dating = she is probably a man

Not that there is anything wrong with being into men if that's your type of thing

[Dsfunctional]

Bitches be crazy - in other words, just move on with you life and find someone new. Obviously things aren't working out if all you two do is argue constantly. That is typically a bad sign of things to come in the future.

[Reeve]

Sounds like an unhealthy relationship and a good person for you to break contact with completely. Move on. There are plenty of other girls out there that won't cause you so much indigestion.

[Fearnor]

Some more info!I am 22 years old soon 23.Had some gfs in the past but none of em made me feel like this.We had daily contant with skype webcam.She is acting very immature which is really weird,she wasnt like this.She thinks that i am lying and i swear to god i didnt.At least when we were together.She seems to be hurt really bad!Thank for ur replies and yea i will stop the contact for a while at least,to let things settle down and who knows,we may talk later on again!Feel free to reply if u have something to say!
P.S Fixed the original post!

[Muis]

Just let her go.
I stopped contact with my ex after 4,5 years together and it's the best thing I've done tbh.

[Drdraenei]

Angry Sex is the best!

[Thodrin]

The only sensible thing to do is bang another girl while on skype with her. It's the only way.

[Deleted]

never had a long distance-relationship, but I think there's more risk of jealousy as you can't "watch" what your partner is doing all day long. maybe that's why she comes up with strange ideas like you lying to her or other things. these relationships need a strong character and much faith in each other. sounds like she lacks the latter which can lead to the relationship failing, no matter how hard you try or how often you tell her you did nothing wrong and never lied to her. conclusion: just end it

[Deleted]

The fact that you try to have a conversation with her while being very friendly and she just get's mad for nothing, doesn't that say enough that you shouldn't bother anymore? I don't know, feels like she is a very insecure and moody person, how can you get mad everyday for no particular reason while you just have a normal convo? Like you said it's been a year ago, so just move on and let her deal with her own issues. You tried, can't do more then that.

Do one thing...if you get a new gf wether ldr or in same country, drop all contact with her... if she still continues being mad at everything.

[nalle]

Some more info!I am 22 years old soon 23.Had some gfs in the past but none of em made me feel like this.We had daily contant with skype webcam.She is acting very immature which is really weird,she wasnt like this.She thinks that i am lying and i swear to god i didnt.At least when we were together.She seems to be hurt really bad!Thank for ur replies and yea i will stop the contact for a while at least,to let things settle down and who knows,we may talk later on again!Feel free to reply if u have something to say!
P.S Fixed the original post!

Would advise you to not contact her in the future either as it might just repeat the same pattern.

Let her go and find someone else.

[Systam]

sucks for long distance relationships, even close ones have the same problem

My gf of 3 years just left me but we can't seem to not talk since we were best friends but we argue constantly because she wants to take a break or some shit but then she comes over here and does shit with me, gets really confusing

i would think after a year you should really just drop contact. Its been a month for me and my ex and while she's kindaish dating a guy she's never seen for the last 8 years and has talked to for 2 weeks, im def trying to ignore it as much as i can.

I guess trying to deal with an ex you were with for any decent amount of time is a lot harder than just dropping it. Dropping sucks at first but it'll get better eventually

[Editos]

Probably she still love you

[Deleted]

Probably she still love you

but if she shows that by arguing with him most or all of the time, it doesn't help..

[Fearnor]

I had the same problem with a "normal" relationship.I knew that it will be harder!And yes i was her bestfriend,i was there when she was crying and when she was happy,we werent just u know the typical bf/gf.It was way more than that.The damn feelings make me feel sick,its really hard,i will try thou!And yea she is trying to make me jealous as well,she is hanging around (in game) with an "ex" friend of mine and do stupid things like this.Good luck to u too man!I hope things will get better for u!

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but if she shows that by arguing with him most or all of the time, it doesn't help..

Yea it doesnt help at all!It just make things worse and worse!If she loves me,she has to show it somehow!As i am trying to be friendly!