My gf's family was trying to hook her up with her cousins :/, damn filipinos
You might have watched too much Game of Thrones ^^Made them KINGS!
go for it, just because your uncle married some women with a sweet daughter doesn't automaticly make the daughter off limits, tell her what you feel and if she have mutual feelings then thats awesomesauce for you!
Op just ask her what is what, if she takes no action it is your turn to.
Girls sadly in our society are "expected" to not make the first move, which leaves us gentlemen, specially the shy ones, in an awkward position sometimes.
or she might just want to be your friend, not enough info.
After reading this topic a bit i wonder if i just stepped into a south park episode or something O_o
Who cares, though? I mean, I guess some people would object on moral grounds but it really is arbitrary to say a relationship is bad just because you're superficially related. If this dude's uncle got divorced, would it then suddenly be ok to have a relationship because they are no longer "related?"
I probably wouldn't, no, but I don't think there's anything wrong with it beyond the potential discomfort it could cause in the family. My father is married to his brother's wife's sister, and that doesn't seem weird at all.
I do have 3 step-sisters, and even though we didn't grow up together and we're not related by blood, I wouldn't date any of them. But I think there's a big difference between that and a distance non-blood-related cousin.
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This was tottaly not about her being my step cousin. I am educated anough to know the risks of having a relationship with her... absolutely none! Now this is my opinion and even tho I don't agree with other points of view on this matter, I respect them because I understand where they come from.
This was more of a "How could I get closer to her without making thinks awekward afterwards!". I feared the answere would be "grow a pair of balls" but unfortunatly it seems that way.
I only have a hard time with the ones I really care about :\
P.S.: Yes, I'm extremely shy also (when I really don't want to screw up)
P.S.2: we came a long way from barely ever talking in the 11 years we "knew" each other, to getting confortable enough to make fun of eachother (in a flirty way I guess?) and not being so afraid to make some simple physical contacts.
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