I've litteraly play PC games most of the time, and only reason i even got a console was becasue of a handful of exclusives. vast majority of rpg's that i've been playing since.. oh.. the 1990ties? are in THIRD. PERSON. PERSPECTIVE.
its not about some weird projecting about masturbation or other nonsense.
its literally more immersive to have a field of view afforded by a third person. maybe its from playing tabletop and seeing your minis on the table. maybe its from all those isometric games. maybe its becasue first person view doesn't look like actualy looking through your own eyes look like. maybe its some or all of the above.
but for the love of all that is holy, even if you personaly cannot relate, why in a gods green earth is it so freaking hard to accept that not everyone likes things the way that you do??? and its not for some imagined by you ridiculous, dumb reasons?