Only thing that bothers me is most women suck at wow. Other then that everything they do irl is normally b/c of my own fuck ups. I try my best to talk and spend time as much as I can. The biggest problem I really see most people making is not putting the same effort into thier relationship as time goes on. It's constant work and very rewarding. (married 8 years)
*Shrugs*
1 - I hate how they can get upset about something, let it go a week, forget about it and then 3 years later suddenly get reminded about it and be just as pissed.
2 - How they would get mad at you for seeing their underwear but don't mind at all if you see them in a VERY skimpy bikini.
3 - That you notice they seem a bit out of the ordinary and you ask if anything is wrong. They say "Everything is fine, don't worry" and then get mad at you for not DIGGING into their personal life only to drag out the fact that they broke a nail and needs to cuddle.
4 - I hate when you fall in love with them and they know that love made you blind and then abuse/takes advantage of you.
5 - Speak in code - Like not really saying what they mean, but if you take it into consideration over a few days, you will know KINDA what she meant.
But then again - we guys have several flaws as well..
OP sounds like a 12 year old virgin.
Infracted
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"What are you thinking about" is the only one, not because the question is annoying because it doesn't come up much but men can actually think about nothing, or rather sit there completely passively with nothing running through our heads. Women can't seem to grasp this idea. Please understand it I beseech you.
So far my complete lack of understanding or showing much emotion hasn't hurt too much but I don't even get attached to things or feel sad or happy or anything, I just exist. Thank god they understand that I'm emotionally retarded in the sense that they don't exist and I don't get questions about it \o/
Phone: "On your way home (from your 14 hour shift) can you nip to shops & get me....."
Getting phone calls whilst at work & she`s in pub, yet on my rare day off & go for a pint, I`m in the dog house.
"Shh, Judge Judy/X-Factor (yada yada) is on"
/cringe
"do you think that girl is prettier than me?" When i say no, she doesnt believe me, when i say yes she gets mad... I now told her i don't answer that question anymore...
"do u still like me?" I just bought a fucking house together with you, bought u all kinds of cool stuff, support u through a hard time at work etc etc... WTF DO YOU THINK YOURSELF??!!
I hate when they ask questions that don't leave room for a REAL honest answer. If u don't wanna hear a possible different answer than what u hope for, don't ask the question...
Pretty much this for me too. I don't really have feelings towards other people (asides from close relatives and very old friends) and never get attached to any person. I find it VERY effective to stay out of everyone's business so as to not get hurt or dragged into their personal affairs, especially with girls since they are the ones with issues. Then again I'm still 17 y/o so what do I know.