Originally Posted by
Daskapital
The fact that you even see CHILD support as money for the mom shows how unaware you are of your own privilege. Child support us the BARE MINIMUM you do as a father.
If your wife cheats and you stay with her and raise the kid, yes, its yours.
Alimony is a support payment for your spouse fucking up their education and career for you. So if you get your wife to quit school and not work for 20 years because you cant be fucked to make your own samwiches, iron your own shirts, and vacuum, then yes, you pay for that shit. If the genders are reversed or if the spouses are of the same sex, the exact same rule applies.