I'm wondering just how much body language says about what you really want... even if it's subconsciously.
Now, for those who like some context please continue to read. However be warned this is is sort of a "is she into me" type thing....
Basically long story short(ish) I invited a "close" girl friend to stay the night and go to the movies. Now she does have a BF (who I've never met lol), but she agreed without any hesitation despite having never stayed over at my place before.
Now where the body language thing comes into play is the movies... It was pretty empty and we actually (almost) had a row to ourselves. Yet not only did she sit next to me, I swear about 75% of the time we were touching in some way. Our legs were touching, feet touching, she was leaning into me (and not to like whisper something about the movie). It just generally felt like we were close and to be frank my mind was screaming "put your arm around her!" but I didn't.
Now I know that sometimes I can read too much into things, which is a reason that I didn't put my arm around her, but there is more to it than that...
Some of the things we were talking earlier tonight (oh yea she's over here right now rofl) and even things we did kind of are leading me to that too. Some of the things we did... well if she didn't have clothes on would have been rated XXX. In fact as it was it was borderline softcore porn, and could have earned at least an R (and maybe NC-17) rating if it was in a film lol. Plus the things we talked about... her life story, my life story, and all sorts of sexy things.
I would love to hear the opinions from someone who has some psych background and just people in general on that. I know that a lot of times "mind readers" are really just like highly observant to things like subconscious tells and body language. I really wonder what someone with that kind of background would think/say to everything... especially since she has a BF some just seem REALLY odd.