Originally Posted by
DarkEmperor
Somehow what you've told reminds me of ppl for removing me from the LFG group for playing a spec that doesn't deal "good" dmg. Reminds me of some several situations: ppl asking me why the hell I play a frost mage in a 5 man dungeon and then kick me after 1 pull. Tank is laughing at me for playing a failspec, sith assassin dps and vote kick me straight away and I got removed instantly.
I think ppl aren't abusing you, but misjudging you. I believe it's when ppl see you are playing a "failspec", a spec that can't work/perform well, they will laugh at you, scold you at you, remove you from the group, etc. Also I think there is a group of impatient ppl that want to do dungeons in a short amount of time possible for the rewards. So if you are playing a spec that might slow down the group they will do the same thing too, ask you to leave or you receive an instant removal.
For serious progression content I can understand some specs can't work well. Sometimes it hurts me to see again and again ppl just judging you purely based on the spec you are playing and not looking at the content we play. I ask myself again and again, why can't I play the spec I like? And what if I don't play the spec that deals the most dmg? I outgeared the content or it's a dungeon, the spec doesn't matter as long as we can finish the content... Then again I will go like: "Oh yeah, it's LFG, just ignore it. Oh damn, I was in the queue for 1 hour and just got removed... terrific... /sigh"