Ah please just stop that. I know people who enjoys doing all those stuffs. So they are not gamer's worth its salts to you? These people lead raids back in the 40 man days.
So stop with the insults. You don't want to do them? Find them boring? Find. Just don't insults people that do. It does not make you cooler, or a better gamer. As if that is something important.
Some people actually play this game to have fun. But seems others like to dictate to other what "fun" is according to their own style.
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No it isn't. It is just different to yours and your experience. Guess what. People are different. Some people do not say much. That is just them.
Just like kids in schools. Some are very social and very popular. Some are more introvert. There is nothing with them. Just different.
And yes, I spammed chat for groups before. And it took upto an hour to find a group. And sometime dropped because one of their friends happen to come online.
So tell me great one, as a complete new player, how do you make groups before knowing anyone, before having a rich friend lists of tanks, healers and dps?