Originally Posted by
Mirishka
The sad reality is, we live in a world that is filled with ignorance and judgmental, shallow people. This problem is exacerbated x100 when dealing with people online, where there's little fear of reprisal (hence all the racism and ignorance in trade channel, comments sections, etc).
In this time you've 'been something you're not' you have given people a perception of you that you're about to shatter like a mirror. Unless you're in the world's most exceptional/kind/understanding guild, you're setting yourself up for a massive, massive dramabomb that will damage - if not outright kill - your enjoyment of the game.
My advice is to find another guild where you can just be yourself as you wish to be, from the outset. As opposed to a guild where you can't be, only to reach a point where you feel like you have to 'come out' and risk irreparable harm. Your post makes it clear you wish to preserve your raid spot/relationships with players where you are, but its highly unrealistic to expect that all of those things will remain intact through this.