I'm completely okay with punishing idiots. I'm not scared of EVE, I just can't do anything meaningful and fun with it and I'm not okay with timesinks, that's all.
Sorry to disappoint you, but I knew how things work in EVE before I even downloaded the client, therefore I never lost anything valuable, never got scammed, whenever I got killed I knew how I fucked up or it was just a fair outcome of a fight. Whenever I wanted to stay safe I did.