Hi
A bit about me first, Im not an officer in my guild but i would hope to see myself as someone whose opinion could be trusted. I have only been raiding since FL but take the game kinda seriously as regard to game knowledge and my own class skill. Im usually a passive guy who sorta just rolls with wipes and progression but lately I have found myself to be a bit more vocal. We are progressing on paragons HC and we havent hit a wall as such but are in the early stages so we are sorting out what works best for us. Starting the pull we lower rikkal and nuke down skeer like most if not all guilds. But what bugs me is that even with this much overgearing sometimes we cant killl it in time. I have been pretty loud this raid talking about how we can make things better and how we can change our fight. But i was looking at the skeer dmg and saw discrepancies between people of the same class, one of our hunters litterally did double the dmg of another. Well i assumed trinkets+crit streak helped so i didnt say anything. I just sat and waited for a bit more to go on.
We are a semi casual guild so i dont expect the super hardcore mentality which i feel like im transitioning into but would like people to put in 100%. So some pulls later a similar thing happens with the hunters again. Different specs i can sorta understand for example im playing sub and our other rogue is playing combat so my burst is gonna be somewhat higher. But at this point we had not killed skeer in a bout 3 pulls so i decided to ask how come said hunter was doing more dmg (all 3 are BM) consistently. The response i got was " good for them." at this point being a bit cranky i kinda got angry and said "why the fuck dont you ask and maybe you could do more". Raid leader told me to calm down so i did and proceeded to vent a little in melee channel.
Now i dont expect everyone to play like method but when someone of my class plays better than me i try to find out how i can do the same and try to emulate it. I feel without competition i become complacent and lazy so i dont improve which is what has happened to me in the past. Is this wrong to expect this sort of behavior in a semi hardcore guild (3d/w) ?
Being a passive person who hates conflict i felt bad and apologized later on but I still dont think my mentality about it is wrong i dunno. If you arent looking to improve yourself as a player i dont see what is the point. Any ideas, suggestions or perhaps a way i could have handled it better.
TLDR Silly wipes, Angry raider calls someone out feels kinda bad about it. Your 2 cents.