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Hi yes the title is true. Just wanted to ask everyone's insight, and if you have ever been in this situation
Long story short 2 years ago I met this very nice woman on WoW. Over the years we have become 'best friends' never really flirting, but not 'friend zoned' on my part if that makes sense. See I have had her on facebook, talked to her on phone and vent, and I have become quite attached. I realize it would be wrong to date a 42 year old woman when I am only 21 but would it be okay to be a 'fuck buddy' on the off chance. I mean she has a boyfriend and 2 kids. I just am confused, having never had a girlfriend or anything. Is she too old for me?
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2014-05-09, 02:40 AM #1High Overlord
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I'm 21 and want to have sex with a 42 year old.
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2014-05-09, 02:41 AM #2Mechagnome
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Dude, I don't understand your question. Pound it out, no doubt.
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2014-05-09, 02:42 AM #3Deleted
You go for it, fuck what anyone else says.
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2014-05-09, 02:42 AM #4The Lightbringer
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Nothing wrong with it, just a milf.
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2014-05-09, 02:43 AM #5The Lightbringer
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It would not be wrong for a 21 year old to date a 42 year old.
It would be wrong for a 21 year old to engage in intimacy with a 42 year old when she has a boyfriend."In life, I was raised to hate the undead. Trained to destroy them. When I became Forsaken, I hated myself most of all. But now I see it is the Alliance that fosters this malice. The human kingdoms shun their former brothers and sisters because we remind them what's lurking beneath the facade of flesh. It's time to end their cycle of hatred. The Alliance deserves to fall." - Lilian Voss
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2014-05-09, 02:44 AM #6I am Murloc!
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Yeah, the question here is if you wanna go for it when she's in a relationship already. Originally Posted by Tzalix
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2014-05-09, 02:44 AM #7The Patient
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" I mean she has a boyfriend and 2 kids." Do you really want to be a homebreaker? I personally wouldn't but I'm not you.
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2014-05-09, 02:44 AM #8The Insane
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No, it's not ok. I don't give a shit about people who have affairs/cheat or whatever, but don't fuck it up for the children. They didn't ask for you to ruin their parents' lives with an affair. Go to a bar and pick up a hot cougar if that's your thing, but don't ruin some poor kids' lives by being a homewrecker. 9 times out of 10, when that shit goes wrong, the kids come out much worse for it, and go on to lead poorer lives because of it.I mean she has a boyfriend and 2 kids.Last edited by Herecius; 2014-05-09 at 02:48 AM.
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2014-05-09, 02:45 AM #9Mechagnome
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I feel the same way as Tzalix. It's probably better to stay friends. Too many complications with a boyfriend in the picture.
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2014-05-09, 02:45 AM #10The Insane
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Omg yes I got here before the lock.
Do what you want.
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2014-05-09, 02:45 AM #11Deleted
Go for it, might I suggest you at least check if she is interested in some way or form. You said she is in a relationship and has kids and you never met "in real life".
But yea, if she is in then go for it by all means.
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2014-05-09, 02:45 AM #12Scarab Lord
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I feel that last part would be wrong regardless of age. Originally Posted by Tzalix
If she were to not be with that boyfriend anymore, who cares? Take it to pound town. She amassed 42 years of experience, and if anything, you could learn A LOT that could set you apart from the chumps your future girlfriends may have been with.
Also, if shes willing to cheat on her current boyfriend- if its not with you it will be with someone else.
Experiences!
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2014-05-09, 02:46 AM #13Pandaren Monk
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Her age isn't the problem, her boyfriend and 2 kids are.
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2014-05-09, 02:46 AM #14Scarab Lord
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She has a boyfriend and two kids. And you think people will judge you because of the age difference ? Seriously ? ...
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2014-05-09, 02:47 AM #15DeletedThe objective is to have sex, not a steady relationship (from what I get in the OP), if the woman is willing then "fuck" the boyfriend. :P Originally Posted by Antbregante
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2014-05-09, 02:47 AM #16Stood in the Fire
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Age only matters if you let it. When I was 20 I dated a 30 year old. The wrong part would be her having a relationship with you when she has a boyfriend, if she's single, don't hit it and quit it. If you like her, seek something, just make sure you can sit with the morals.
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2014-05-09, 02:47 AM #17High Overlord
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Okay, what if she is also going to Blizzcon and we just happened to bump into each other. Would it be alright then? Kids and boyfriend will never know.
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2014-05-09, 02:48 AM #18The Lightbringer
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Is she sexy?
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2014-05-09, 02:48 AM #19Mechagnome
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So what if she has a boyfriend? She's going to cheat on her boyfriend if she wants to, no matter who she does it with. Might as well be the 21 year old virgin who's been putting years worth of effort in. If she intends to cheat then the relationship is already doomed. Might as well end sooner than later. Better it ends now than when the woman's boyfriend is more emotionally and financially invested, before he marries the woman and adopts her kids.
That being said, I see nothing in the OP that indicates she wants to have sex with him. I doubt it will happen.Last edited by Randec; 2014-05-09 at 02:51 AM.
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2014-05-09, 02:48 AM #20I am Murloc!
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Neither scenario would be " wrong " in any manner. If you are attracted to this person you should just get on with it; the age doesn't really matter at this point in your life. Originally Posted by Conscripts
On second thought, you said she had a boyfriend; that is something I wouldn't get behind, but the choice is yours.Last edited by Bryntrollian; 2014-05-09 at 02:51 AM.
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