kissless virgin

[Proskill]

22 kissless virgin here

what to talk about with a newly met girl thats around 18-22 years old ?

i work as a guard at housing estate 24h a day. theres that one girl that id like to be friends (or more) with.

how do i approach her ?

[the game]

I'll never understand why people feel the need to ask a bunch of introverted forum people they've never met how to deal with girls. Honestly just be yourself. let her do the talking.

[Deleted]

Ask them about their lives, if there is one thing everyone can agree on is that women love to talk about themselves.

[Deleted]

Wait till you're over 30 and still kissless virgin. No, you wouldn't be that rare a case.

[vep]

That's a tough one.
I'm in a relatively similar situation as you in where I don't really like talking, silences become awkward and just plain out don't do well with girls. At 24 years of age.
So far, I've tried several strategies but I think the best one has worked out when I plain out told the girl that I have no idea what I'm doing.

So maybe try that?

[Nihilan]

I'll never understand why people feel the need to ask a bunch of introverted forum people they've never met how to deal with girls. Honestly just be yourself. let her do the talking.

Just being present on a forum does not automatically make one a basement dwelling virginal introvert. Many posters here are married with children, or at least sexually experienced.

[-Skye]

Be confident in yourself and your ability to communicate with another person.

[Independent voter]

Come to my state, you can legally hire a pro. Ask for one who's knowledgeable about virgins.

[Heathy]

mhm it really comes down to being yourself, trying to be someone your not isn't going to help, if shes already interested in you, you must be doing it right already. keep doing what your doing. I think it really helps though if you show interest, all women love men who actually listen to them. being a good ear and trying your best to give advice goes a long way toward creating lasting friendships.

[Proskill]

Be confident in yourself and your ability to communicate with another person.

no can do.

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mhm it really comes down to being yourself, trying to be someone your not isn't going to help, if shes already interested in you, you must be doing it right already. keep doing what your doing. I think it really helps though if you show interest, all women love men who actually listen to them.

ok, the thing is we didnt talk at all yet. im just super attracted to her.

[-Skye]

no can do.

Well then, you can always try chloroform.

[Puupi]

"24h housing estate guard".

Is she an inmate?

[Deleted]

Be confident in yourself and your ability to communicate with another person.

Which cliche advice is the exact opposite to the other cliche advice "Just be yourself".

You, cliche mongers, should really make up your minds.

[Proskill]

Well then, you can always try chloroform.

ill keep that in mind

[Deleted]

Wait till you're over 30 and still kissless virgin. No, you wouldn't be that rare a case.

This. Don't fuck up your classchange to wizard!

[Heathy]

ok, the thing is we didnt talk at all yet. im just super attracted to her.

the only thing you can really do is offer her out for dinner or something just grow the balls and ask her out on a date, if she says no, then it will sting but at least you'll know then and there that she wasn't attracted to you. i would probably engage her in conversation for a bit first though. just walking upto her and asking her out on a date might seem a bit weird. but chat her up, find things to discuss, ask her about her day, avoid talking about the weather.

[Deleted]

no can do.

ok, the thing is we didnt talk at all yet. im just super attracted to her.

How about you make her notice you first? Shave that neckbeard, put on some good shoes (ask your mom/aunt/sister/cousin for advice) and some fresh clothes.

[Wells]

Honesty is the best policy. Tell her you're desperate.

[Proskill]

"24h housing estate guard".

Is she an inmate?

subdivision, housing development, estate. thats what online dictionary comes up with. its not a prison. im guarding houses

[Deleted]

the only thing you can really do is offer her out for dinner or something just grow the balls and ask her out on a date, if she says no, then it will sting but at least you'll know then and there that she wasn't attracted to you.

Is this a thing that people actually do? Asking people out they've never even talked to? How Hollywood-esque, disgusting.