Trigger about inequalities! raaageee
Trigger about inequalities! raaageee
I was a Death's Demise.
Those were the good old days.
Like I said, if you're convincing in your presentation or I know you, then I'll use "she". But if I see someone in a wig, makeup and a dress with a blatant five-o-clock shadow, I'm going with "he". Since you've clarified, I've no problem using your requested pronoun, assuming I remember to. And not be offensive, as I'm sincerely curious, how do you intend to completely "transition" if you're still "buff" enough to "tip a vw one-handed"? I've yet to a muscular chic that didn't look like a dude.
As an Adult in the Military a black man abused me. I do not fear black men for the actions of one person who took advantage of me when I was drunk and nearly unconscious.
(although I do have issues this day from that event, I fear loss of control mostly)
However I fear you and many women in your position have missed something important. As children most transwomen knew they were female, but they were forced to be males by family, schools, and friends. This level of constant pressure is just as damaging as CSA, and many times included it as well. So when we first are starting out, with a rare few exceptions most men didn't care, they would think oh hey he's gay whatever. Women on the other hand, a small few would be nice and helpful, but the majority would become vicious and mean to us. More then once in my life I have heard "What are you a pervert?", "You have no right to dress like that!" ect. Women can get rather mean to Transwomen fairly quickly. So when a woman like you comes around and demands that we show you empathy, I have to sit back and wonder were you the one nice lady at the make up counter, or the 10 others who gave me horrible looks and comments while looking at lipstick.
It might be why I have allowed myself to gain weight over these last 5 years, fat does round my build a bit. If I had the means, I would go full SRS, and other things. I have done as much as humanly possible on my finances but there are hard limits that prevent me from furthering my goals. Although I'm still pressing forward.
Sounds like an environment for both actual rape and false rape accusations to arise from. Doesn't seem worth the trouble.
Take a break from politics once in awhile, it's good for you.
So if the knowledge that a penis has a really good habit of becoming unusable for even consensual sex after starting estrogen, and just will not do anything after the removal of testicles were out there, would that lower your worry a bit? Physical strength also goes away after a year, sports stuff requires two years, but yea.
Everyone of my genetic female friends, but one, are currently stronger than me because I'm a fragile little flower... 6 foot tall flower. I could not overpower them if I wanted to.
Sounds like my father. (the reason why I was in a gym, in the Marines, and all my other failed manly attempts.)
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I don't have insurance, I'm 100% service connected through the VA. I get all my medical needs from the VA, but somethings such as Transition are not fully covered yet... I stress yet since the rules have slowly been changing over the years.