How to be a cuck

[Justpassing]

What people don't seem to understand is cuckold is not an insult. Its their passion.
This is derivative by 12 year olds on the internet and the recent porn genre where the "cuckolded" male actor pretends he is being forced against his will. In reality, men who engage in this do it freely. Otherwise it would be rape.

I know an adult couple who BOTH partners love watching the other have sex, and its quite passionate for them. I'd love to ask them what they think about the kids on the internet saying this man, who is at least 6'5 and a pretty serious health nut, must have passed on the red pill.

zzz

Ok.

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[Glyngaris]

Misogynistic? How on earth...?

If anything, cuck is misandrist.

obviously, but Fencers is pretty obviously a tumblr style feminist from the pseudo-scientific terms she throws around. Replying to her is a waste of time because they don't think Misandry exists.

I'm looking forward to the ban for this regardless of not breaking any rules, since she is a mod and all.

[Deleted]

What are you saying "no' to exactly?

Basically everything you've written in this thread, from trying to turn this into misogyny as usual to relating the fetish these people having go on to "polyarmory" so you can start defending it.

It's amazing to watch Fencer turn a word and a description that literally is a derogatory term for men who have a specific fetish into something that is misogynistic.

Everything is, absolutely everything. This is just why it's so pointless to even discuss, it doesn't matter.

[Spectral]

Poly lifestyle is big in Portland; it's not about the guy being a passive wimp who lets his wife sleep around (hence the typical implication of the term "cuckold"); typically both partners will have other sex partners. The openness of the relationship is more egalitarian than is implied; I've met couples who have basically implied it was the male partner's idea to open up the relationship as well as vice versa.

While I've heard people claim otherwise, I don't think I'm ever likely to believe that these people experience the same sort of attachment that those in monogamous relationships do. Maybe they don't want to and that's fine. No skin off my ass either way, to each their own.

It is pretty amusing how people use terms like "polyamory" to dress up the age old practice of stepping out on their wives/husbands.

[Revi]

What people don't seem to understand is cuckold is not an insult. Its their passion.
This is derivative by 12 year olds on the internet and the recent porn genre where the "cuckolded" male actor pretends he is being forced against his will. In reality, men who engage in this do it freely. Otherwise it would be rape.

I know an adult couple who BOTH partners love watching the other have sex, and its quite passionate for them. I'd love to ask them what they think about the kids on the internet saying this man, who is at least 6'5 and a pretty serious health nut, must have passed on the red pill.

zzz

That's more polygamy/swinging than cuckold I think. A part of cuckold (according to the wiki definition and the ways I've seen it used, anyway) is that it involves humiliation.

Psychology regards cuckold fetishism as a variant of masochism, the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated.[9][10] In Freudian analysis, cuckold fetishism is the eroticization of the fears of infidelity and of failure in the man's competition for procreation and the affection of females

So it's a more specific term to a certain variety of polygamy.

[Gumboy]

http://www.mmo-champion.com/threads/...Forum-Rules-**


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WHEN POSTING...
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"Sexuality/Gender identity"


This is not allowed per forum rules and a ton of the posts here are extremely offensive (And completely misguided) attacks on peoples sexual lifestyle....

[Kraenen]

Like I said before, it's really popular in japan as well.
Some white dudes love when asian girls prefer white guys. It goes both ways I guess? As long as there is physical racial differences there will be NTR.

I've heard about that. Just backs up my position that it's often racist and concerning a "better" man in sexual/physical terms.

[Deleted]

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WHEN POSTING...
...keep in mind the post contents/subjects that are not allowed:"

"Sexuality/Gender identity"


This is not allowed per forum rules and a ton of the posts here are extremely offensive (And completely misguided) attacks on peoples sexual lifestyle....

People voicing their opinions are attacks on a lifestyle?

[Fencers]

[QUOTE=Revi;38377669]You responded with nonsense. You concede that it's a derogatory term towards men not adhering to the idealize male stereotype, yet call it misogynist.

That doesn't follow at all. Judging someone for just taking it, or even enjoying it, when they feel denigrated by infidelity does not translate to expecting them to be the dominant partner.

I do not think it is a hatred or denigration of men for being men- which is misandry.

I think when the term it is used derisively it is used in the context that those men in circumstances such cuckoldry or various open relationships are not living up to standard of Real Men specifically through what is seen as prostration to or for women.

The sentiment is not exactly, "Oh, this cuck is a pathetic creature!", so much as it is closer to; "Oh this cuck is a pathetic creature for not being dominating his woman!"

I participate in sex positive forums and the subreddit- sex positivity is very important to me. Yet I notice the use of cuckolding outside of fetishism to often be laced with the subtext of the man (or 'cuck' as it were) being pathetic due to his subservience to a woman.

In this very thread you see language that intimates not just a lack of manliness but of denigration for doing so for a woman. There are female cucks as well, but the language used for these women doesn't intimate they are lesser for prostrating themselves to men.

[Strangebrew]

http://www.mmo-champion.com/threads/...Forum-Rules-**


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WHEN POSTING...
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"Sexuality/Gender identity"


This is not allowed per forum rules and a ton of the posts here are extremely offensive (And completely misguided) attacks on peoples sexual lifestyle....

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[Gumboy]

People voicing their opinions are attacks on a lifestyle?

Constant insults against people is why these topics are not allowed. It is the same as if someone made a thread saying being gay is immoral. That is also an opinion, and guess what, its still an attack on the lifestyle of people that may read it.

[Celista]

While I've heard people claim otherwise, I don't think I'm ever likely to believe that these people experience the same sort of attachment that those in monogamous relationships do. Maybe they don't want to and that's fine. No skin off my ass either way, to each their own.

It is pretty amusing how people use terms like "polyamory" to dress up the age old practice of stepping out on their wives/husbands.

I'm sure there are some attachment issues there. Sleeping with others has the potential to create distance from your primary relationship; some of them probably have some sort of sex addiction.

I'd consider it somewhat different from "stepping out" because it, at the very least, seems somewhat more honest/open than running around behind your partner's back.

[Cthulhu 2020]

What people don't seem to understand is cuckold is not an insult. Its their passion.
This is derivative by 12 year olds on the internet and the recent porn genre where the "cuckolded" male actor pretends he is being forced against his will. In reality, men who engage in this do it freely. Otherwise it would be rape.

I know an adult couple who BOTH partners love watching the other have sex, and its quite passionate for them. I'd love to ask them what they think about the kids on the internet saying this man, who is at least 6'5 and a pretty serious health nut, must have passed on the red pill.

zzz

That's not cucking though, that's swinging.

Cuck isnt a misogynist term though, it's just another term guys use to shame other guys.

[Fahrenheit]

Reading this thread made my balls itch.

[Cthulhu 2020]

The thing about 4chan is that only idiots take anything posted there seriously. My personal favourite are trap threads and the inevitable shitposting about using him/her pronouns. It's a form of performance art where the performers are playing a role and repeating the same lines over and over again. Only newfriends actually take the arguments seriously and get their panties in a bunch over them. Nobody actually gives a fuck one way or the other. It's just people baiting the newfriends to partake in the arguments and then laughing at them for getting angry.

Do people really believe that shitposting is never actually something the person believes, and they're j/k always?

[Deleted]

The sentiment is not exactly, "Oh, this cuck is a pathetic creature!", so much as it is closer to; "Oh this cuck is a pathetic creature for not being dominating his woman!"

You know that's not what a cuck is right? You do know in theory you can be Homosexual and a cuck right?

Cuck and cuckholdry are basically masochism fetishes who fetish their own sexual failure. They get off on the idea of a superior screwing their partner instead of them.

The fact that Cuckholdry is so rampant in male feminists is the height of irony.

Also nice job demonising Men with Dominant sexual lives, guess you need to be sexist even more right?

[Kraenen]

I'm sure there are some attachment issues there. Sleeping with others has the potential to create distance from your primary relationship; some of them probably have some sort of sex addiction.

I'd consider it somewhat different from "stepping out" because it, at the very least, seems somewhat more honest/open than running around behind your partner's back.

I think what excites them is that there's the risk they lose that person - that risk is adrenaline-filled and sexual in nature, and it causes anxiety. A lot of the time people will simply act and force the issue one way or another, if they feel too much anxiety. Cucking might be one way to control the partner's cheating desires or to control one's anxiety about cheating. Once the act is fulfilled, the anxiety should theoretically go away. /armchair psychology

[apples]

Constant insults against people is why these topics are not allowed. It is the same as if someone made a thread saying being gay is immoral. That is also an opinion, and guess what, its still an attack on the lifestyle of people that may read it.

saying that a certain opinion is an attack gives credence to that opinion

alternatively, you could have a discussion about the merits of whether or not x is y and you could recognize that its entirely theoretical as youre only trying to get to an objective truth through subjective means, i.e., trying to reach a commonly held idea through discussion

[Deleted]

thought you were going to say be a mod on mmo champ, shame

[Radux]

Since sexuality stuff isn't a topic permitted on the forums, I'm closing this.