At this point you are just being obstinate, so I don't see any further need to discuss this point with you. There are thousands of elves living in Mirkwood in the book, The Hobbit, so naming one in the movie that wasn't named in the books doesn't contradict anything in the plot. You saying them naming a character that they didn't name in the book fundamentally changes the plot, is just an asinine statement.
As far as Wheel of Time goes, you either have no clue how the magic system works, so maybe you should bow out of the conversation because it doesn't affect you, you could just say you haven't read the books, so the change isn't a big deal to you. Or if you do understand how the magic system works, you are just being a troll saying it doesn't matter if the Dragon is male or female.
Either way, respond how you will or not, I don't see anything productive in continuing this conversation with you.