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    Over 9000! Gimlix's Avatar
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    Why is cheating so normal in todays world?

    There is even adds on TV about how flirting isnt wrong and when you go to their site you only see couples cheating.
    Like how the hell has it become normal to cheat that it even airs on tv commercials?
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    Are you implying that there hasn't been cheating for the entirety of human history? The only difference between then and now is that today very few places follow those ancient prescriptions to ostracize/execute adulterers.

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    Cheating exists because society is continuously trying to push people into long term relationships that they don't want. The truth are that very few relationships can survive a lifetime, while society expects that form just about every marriage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gimlix View Post
    There is even adds on TV about how flirting isnt wrong and when you go to their site you only see couples cheating.
    Like how the hell has it become normal to cheat that it even airs on tv commercials?
    What do you even mean by this? Why would flirting be wrong? What site are you talking about and why do you care what others do? How does thier relationships affect you?
    Also, why do you think this is a new idea? People have been cheating, having affairs and multiple partners since forever.

    Just becuase you can now read about it in social media, news apps and so on does not make it "new".

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    Because it is normal, has always been, and will always be...

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    “In a closed society where everybody’s guilty, the only crime is getting caught. In a world of thieves, the only final sin is stupidity.”
    10/char........

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    Cheating have always existed, just that they didnt have tinder hundreds or thousands of years ago to make it easier.

    You would also get killed most likely back then atleast the women.

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    Online dating sexual revolution etc... Although I don't think cheating is any more common now than say 40 years ago maybe even less lol, back then you could move 15 miles and have a whole new life lol... But a lot less than probably 200 years ago when we were limited by church dogma/different rules in society.
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    Because you shouldn't be with someone only because you love them. You need to fit with them. You need to be life partners, not only love partners. And this exists very few times.

    Yes, you can have some relationship based only on love, but it won't last long.

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    Todays world ?
    You mean your world. In the laws of Islam if you are married and you cheated, you will be stoned to death.
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    it's because today's woman don't face consequences after cheating due to feminism and the tools for finding suitable partners are better (social media, hook up apps)

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    Cause the world for you means... internet, tv and books. This is the same for many of you and hence it's reality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dangg View Post
    it's because today's woman don't face consequences after cheating due to feminism
    What kind of consequences would that be that feminism stops?

    OT;
    It's has been pretty normal in the past, it is now and it will still be in the future.

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    In Small towns it's difficult to get away with cheating because everyone knows everything about you. You can try to get away with cheating but the odds of your cheating getting back to your mate is very high.
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    All forms of cheating generally give some sort of advantage in exchange for taking a risk. Cheating on your wife/girlfriend gives the enormous benefit, from a biological perspective, of greatly increasing the odds of your genetic lineage surviving. Of course, this is not happening on a conscious level, but perhaps it accounts for why it does happen.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gimlix View Post
    There is even adds on TV about how flirting isnt wrong and when you go to their site you only see couples cheating.
    Like how the hell has it become normal to cheat that it even airs on tv commercials?
    because cheating was always normal .

    historicaly women were staying at home raising kids while men f...ed around as much as they wanted. it wasnt untill 20th century when women went to work and could start leaving their husbands when it started to "not be ok" - in past they had no choice else they would starve so having misttress or couple of them was accepted as there was nothing they could have done to prevent it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gimlix View Post
    There is even adds on TV about how flirting isnt wrong and when you go to their site you only see couples cheating.
    Like how the hell has it become normal to cheat that it even airs on tv commercials?
    because people in general are deceitful f*cks. Who also think that everything should be perfect all time or they'll just move on to the next.

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    It's normal in today's world because it's normal. Where in our genetic code are we dictated to remain with only one person? If someone wants to bang and the opportunity exists...
    The wise wolf who's pride is her wisdom isn't so sharp as drunk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by s_bushido View Post
    Are you implying that there hasn't been cheating for the entirety of human history? The only difference between then and now is that today very few places follow those ancient prescriptions to ostracize/execute adulterers.
    It would be weird if culture had no effect on behavior and basically people are going to do the same things at the same rates for all of time

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    A lot of people are in a relationship while they should not be, some might even be together just for financial reasons looking at the cost of living nowadays.

    In my opinion, if you are looking for just fuck buddies and having some decent friendship with it. It is not outside the realm of possibilities.

    As for why it is being show on TV, in adds and so on. Sex sells it is that simple.

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