Women will say they want a kind, sweet, sensitive guy, and while I don't think that's necessarily wrong, what tends to attract women up front is usually different. Confidence is pretty much the number 1 trait you can develop, so start researching that online or watching YT video lectures on it. Regardless of all other circumstances, this is one anybody can build up. Think of it as the canvas on which everything else is built.
Other than that, on a biological level women are attracted to 3 things:
1) looks
2) wealth
3) influence
You don't need all 3, just get one really well or a combination. Women like a guy who give a sense of being a provider or a protector, and these traits demonstrate those. Figure out which traits would be easiest for you to build and work on those.
That is really not true at all.
Women are attracted to masculine men. You can be ugly and poor as shit with no power at all. As long as you have a sense for fashion and act confident, show good body posture and twinkling, sexy eyes, you can get women. It's all about how you come across. Attraction is created before she ever looks into your wallet. It doesn't surprise me that most men here don't have a clue what women are attracted to.
Listen here, son. To be successful, you need to be a a well-balanced individual. Don't go 100% in but don't half-ass things either. 80/20 rule applies here. Women want someone who is 1) hot 2) rich 3) "adventurous". One of those things is out of your control and the other two are incompatible! You can either work hard, invest smart and retire at 40 and do whatever you want whole day long or be "adventurous", get into trouble with the law, gamble all of your money away, get addicted to drugs and end up dead in a ditch. You need to realize that you can't please women!!! Just focus on your own financial independence and when you finally feel like you've got your life under control, look at all the fun things you can do.
Let women*** chase their bad boys.
***some women don't chase bad boys. Just like only a small percentage of male population is well-adjusted, so is only a small percentage of female population well-adjusted. Well-adjusted people don't chase after relationships. They work hard and invest smart. Make friends with like-minded women but focus on developing friendships with them instead of relationships. Friendships are way better, especially if you ACTUALLY like the person.
Last edited by Wilfire; 2017-12-25 at 06:54 PM.
i said i was 15 at the time in regards to recieving a blowjob from a 13 year old. what'd you think i was trying to say, that i got a teenager to suck my dick when i was 8 years old? i mean hey im not saying it doesn't happen but you have to admit that's a little out there
Sounds like confidence, with some looks added. Maybe some wealth for the nice clothes.
It can, or it can be used to instigate the attraction in the first place.Attraction is created before she ever looks into your wallet.
Reading comprehension tends to be the bigger issue.It doesn't surprise me that most men here don't have a clue what women are attracted to.
Nice guys are ok.
Nice guys with entitlement issues... are not the nice guys they think they are.
r/incels is leaking to mmo. or is mmo is source
i live by one motto! "lolwut?"
Nice guys are not ok. Nice guys are boring. Actually feeling entitled to women will help you get them. It's the guys who think they don't deserve them, that will end up not getting them, because they lack the confidence. They'll always say things like "I don't deserve you baby" and sooner the woman will figure "yeah, you don't" and leave him.