feeling of safety

[Proskill]

asked a girl what is she looking for in a man. she said feeling of safety. what did she mean by this ?

no troll pls

[the game]

she means you creep her out.

[The5thVegetable]

Someone who makes her feel safe, I imagine.

[Daedius]

A big burly man, or woman, to wrap their arms around her.

[Thelxi]

She wants to know you can take care of her. Probably including paying her bills.

[Ghostpanther]

She is looking to feel safe with a man. Not someone who will bully her and not protect her when needed. In other words, sounds like she is looking for a safe, stable relationship. Which is a good thing.

[McFuu]

asked a girl what is she looking for in a man. she said feeling of safety. what did she mean by this ?

no troll pls

Someone who can make her feel safe, defend her, etc...

[Celista]

She is looking to feel safe with a man. Not someone who will bully her and not protect her when needed. In other words, sounds like she is looking for a safe, stable relationship. Which is a good thing.

I agree with this. I also think stability is relevant here. Women don't feel safe when men do that push/pull thing or disappear into video games/hobbies for days/weeks/whatever that some men do.

Women also do this, I am one of them but I have learned to not pull away as much in relationships.

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the warm fuzzy feeling you had as a very small child when your dad held you tightly in his arms and you could hear is heart beat in his chest, before you grew up he died and the world got very very real far to fast.

[Ghostpanther]

I agree with this. I also think stability is relevant here. Women don't feel safe when men do that push/pull thing or disappear into video games/hobbies for days/weeks/whatever that some men do.

Women also do this, I am one of them but I have learned to not pull away as much in relationships.

That is a excellent point. They need feel their partner is going to be there for them.They can depend on them. And of course it works both ways.

[Deleted]

That is a excellent point. They need feel their partner is going to be there for them.They can depend on them. And of course it works both ways.

there's a video i watched ages ago about a woman who lived as a man for a year and a bit and did online dating and she explained pretty well the difference between men and women and sexuality and the need for connection more than physicality for women.



try and ignore the depressed dude commentating it i don't agree with his point of view before and after whats important is what she says she found.

[Khaza-R]

Safety = security, stability

Basically a provider, and loyal partner

[Stonecloak]

Safety = security, stability

Basically a provider, and loyal partner

It’s a trap.

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[Deleted]

Like parents for a kid?

[Hashtronaut]

No means yes and yes means anal.

[RobertoCarlos]

Remember its not so much what they say with their mouth, but what they say with their eyes

[truckboattruck]

i have a feeling of safety, its name is 12 gauge

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[Tennis]

asked a girl what is she looking for in a man. she said feeling of safety. what did she mean by this ?

no troll pls

It means you don't seem like a reliable person. She doesn't see you as stable and worth tie ing herself down to.