You can have whatever dating preferences you like, you can also get criticism if you go around telling people what they are.
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I'm not sure what you're trying to say... 9 pages in is "immediately"? I'm late replying to every thread really.
This little window into your mind is truly hysterical ahahaha! Or maybe it's sad, it's hard to tell anymore.
I'm a skinny 35 year old man if that's what you're asking. Although I do need to spend more time at the gym really.
That is a load though. It is really none of your business to be commenting on it. Even if they tell you, it will never concern you. It is literally an issue between the two people involved. If you see fit to inject you own values and standards into other people's relationships that says a hell of a lot more about you than they.
People can have whatever dating preferences they like and do not need to explain or justify them to anyone. This topic has always been a big red flag for SJW mentality.
The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.
I'm surprised this is still going - preferences are preferences and nothing more /THREAD
Ever notice how every fat, ugly landwhale on social media thinks she deserves a 6'4 super model multimillionaire who will take care of her lazy ass along with her 4 kids while worshipping her "curvaciousness"?
You're getting exactly what you deserve.
No they are not. What's wrong with me having had my preferences. Am I hurting black women, asians, basically any other non Eastern European woman that I don't want to date? I also dislike short and fat women.
To make a point, about me personally. I think some preferences are willing and some unwilling, by which I mean you can find someone totally unattractive or unpreferential and you can choose to only look for (or to disclude) specific things in people, I personally wouldn't consider a long term relationship with someone who can't hold a job and will probably not go on dates with people if they are unemployed. Ofcourse since I opt in or out of this trait, I can be flexible but that's my thinking.
So, in general I don't think preferences are bad.
You can be criticized for just about anything. That doesn't make the criticism valid. There's nothing wrong with saying that you're not attracted to larger girls, but if you do it crudely, you're basically just asking for drama. But I think the distinction in this case is that some people accept "fat" only as an insult when it's often just a descriptive term. If you're fat, you're fat. It's just a fact.
18 and 19 are also teenagers, FYI. Not sure why people get so bent out of shape over age gaps. If they're of the legal age to consent, nothing else is relevant. The legal age is the perfect age. /shrug
Having preferences in life isn't bad, it is human, the same goes for dating. It is rather common to have certain preferences just like certain other preferences are actually bad.
FOMO: "Fear Of Missing Out", also commonly known as people with a mental issue of managing time and activities, many expecting others to fit into their schedule so they don't miss out on things to come. If FOMO becomes a problem for you, do seek help, it can be a very unhealthy lifestyle..