Are you entirely daft? Just let people mourn and pay respects. Why do you gotta drag your autistic aspergers-havin ass onto a thread full of people mourning and just absolutely disturb it?
Then go "well if I were to die of cancer, this is how I'd want things to go". Lmao like seriously dude? Are you fully unaware of the type of idiot you're making yourself come across as?
Go fucking mind your own business, yea? Instead of telling others how to be and what to do.