I mean I've contributed several posts but feel free to ignore them because you're upset I pointed out how fucking ridiculous people are being over this movie.
Also its not a strawman to quote myself saying 'a group of people are claiming X' and then quote when someone says X less than 30 minutes later.
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Yeah if Palpatine's entire thing about a Force Dyad was his real end game, it seemed like he was just egging her on until Kylo showed up so he could have both of them together. That or he was just playing out his xanatos gambit in which he wins regardless of what happens. He dies and his spirit inhabits Rey or Rey fights him off and then Kylo shows up and he life drains them both.