Originally Posted by
Deathknightish
The problem here is, yeah, that either;
A) People are lying about not finding people of their own match attractive
or
B) Online dating has brainwashed people into thinking that people ONLY like Megan Fox, Brad Pitt etc. are attractive.
As it is right now, if you online date the absolute minimum of your looks/status/whatever is way way WAY higher than they ever were before online dating made it's debut. Only seeing the absolute top as "appealing" is unnatural. Today, a 4 doesn't date another 4. A 4 tries to date a 8, or even a 9 or a 10.
In the past, people hooked up with their match, because they had no choice as there were no alternatives. Today, we have millions of alternatives which is unhealthy to the dating life, from a societal viewpoint.
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Tinder is giving people delusions of grandeur. People, who in the past would've hooked up, won't anymore because either one, or both, parts think they deserve the ver best. The creme de la creme.
In the past, a model dated another model, while Ben, with a beer belly, hooked up with Susan, who's got celulites, and they were happy together. Of course people dreamed back then about dating a model as well, but because there were way fewer options, they settled, and there was a good balanace with very few singles.