Originally Posted by
Flower Milk
I've played on at least 10 different servers, I found a handful of decent guilds that weren't weird about me being a woman in over a decade of playing/raiding in WoW, but that's it. And what does "they did fine" mean? Like they performed fine? That was not an issue for me, the issue for me was getting creeped on by dudes in my guild. And it's not like it was all the guys in my guild, it would quite literally be just one single guy who would creep on me, I'd tell the people in charge about it, they'd say "there's nothing we can do", so for me it was either leave the guild or continue to be creeped on, those were my only 2 options. Repeat that over and over again in most guilds I join, with only a handful of guilds I've joined and raided in not being like that and dissolving over not having enough people to keep raiding. I play this game to relax and have fun in my free time, not to deal with getting creeped on. I'm not going to do an activity like raiding if every time I have to do it there's some guy whispering me asking me a bunch of questions like, where do I live, how old am I, send me pics of you, etc. I'm here to raid and play the game, and if I could avoid that kind of behavior, I would raid in this game. I never have to deal with that at all in FFXIV, it doesn't even exist. There's so many other women in that game and so many of them in charge of guilds that that kind of behavior is not tolerated at all.