The mere thought that Sylvanas can have such a huge advantage is ridiculous. But let us say it is true that in pure numbers she has the advantage. So what? We have all the heavy hitters on our side. Jaina, Talryssa, Alleria, Turalyon, Anduin and every other big name of Horde and Alliance combined. Those are easily worth hundreds of footsoldiers. Jaina alone could freeze an entire battle field or a giant patch of open sea not to mention her flying ship, while Anduin could revive and heal every soldier that falls.
Sylvanas has herself, Nathanos and that is pretty much it. .