On my current server I am in a decent enough raiding guild (I recently joined them, however, after flitting around in several subpart guilds that claimed to be raiding and did barely anything, or barely progressed when they did raid) however with starting a new job this week I'm going to be unable to meet the guild's raid times, and if I can't get them to be flexible or join another group within the I'll have no choice but to try and find a guild whose times will work better moving forward to Cataclysm. Also, I've been focused on leveling a new character, a Warrior tank (my current main is a Pally tank), to be my new main in Cataclysm and that's taken up almost all of my time lately.
Let me be frank and say that the only reason I play WoW is for the raiding experience; if I didn't raid I would probably not play the game. I had quite a long time where I was in very casual guilds that either didn't raid or could barely muster enough people to make a raid, and when they could raid were extremely poor in performance - until I server transferred the furthest I had been into ICC was 6/12 as the guilds I had been a part of were unable to get further. After going to a few guilds on a new server, my Pally tank managed to be 11/12 in ICC25 (never could get that last push on LK to down him) and 12/12 in ICC10, with 6/12 Heroic experience and 4/12 Heroic completion (for some inexplicable reason the guild never did Marrowgar and Deathwhisper on Heroic, so my 4/12 is Rotface, Festergut, BQL and Lootship, with the two incomplete kills but fight experience being Dreamwalker and Blood Princes; shortly after I joined the group stopped running to take a hiatus until Cataclysm so we haven't pushed HMs any further than that or even done regular full clears of ICC).
Moving into Cataclysm, though, I want more. I want to push progression in a top-tier guild as I know I have the skill, but I'm lacking the connections to ease my way in to a high-end progression guild (i.e. I don't know people or have friends that know people so can put in a good word and get me a trial run or even an invite). Now, I'm going to run into the problem that in Cataclysm my "main" is going to be untested raid-wise as I'm not going to have enough time really to gear up him and get him into ICC, while I as the player have decent ICC experience on other toons (i.e. the Pally tank) and the potential to be doing a lot more than I'm currently able to (At the risk of coming across very conceited and even arrogant, I'm confident that I'm good enough to be in a top-ranked guild and perform to their standards, but have been saddled with lots of poor guilds that were unable to push content for almost the entirety of my career as a raider, not to mention only starting to play the game as ICC was released and therefore being forced to skip all but the penultimate content [i.e. ToC]).
It may come down in the next few weeks that I look at leaving my current guild (again, due to schedule conflicts) and possibly even a server transfer to a new realm as there is some excess baggage on my current realm that may or may not prove a problem. In any case, I'd be looking for something better than what I seem to have found, but I'm unsure how to exactly go about "selling" myself when my excuse for not being 12/12 in ICC Heroic isn't a lack of personal skill, it's lack of having 9 (or 24) other people dedicated and skilled enough to do it with me. That issue comes doubly so when the character I would be applying with will have had zero WOTLK raid experience due to being leveled to 80 very quickly in (assuming I can hit 80 before 12/7) approximately four weeks via tanking and the LFD tool in order to be 80 before the expansion hits (albeit I could link the current main as a reference to show that I have raided).
This question bothers me almost daily because, honestly, I want more out of the game than what I seem to be able to have, and I don't know how to go about getting it. A hardcore raider trapped in the body of a casual raider, as it were (not that there's anything wrong with casual raiding, so don't think I'm saying that. Raiding is just, IMO, the key part of the game and the only part that matters).
Can anyone offer some advice, or suggestions, or even flat out convincing me otherwise in regards to this?