Originally Posted by
Adamas102
As for Jaime's honorable actions:
1. Killing the Mad King - This is of course prior to the events of the show, but it's important because it sets up his character. He states at least twice in the show the contradiction between keeping his oath to protect the king vs saving the innocent, and it's pretty obvious which one he values more. Being saddled with the mantle of Kingslayer when he knows he did the right thing is what leads him to become such a cold and jaded individual. At his core, Jaime WANTS to do the right thing, but this experience sours his taste for it.
This goes to both our points - Jaime doing some good things, in his efforts to be an oathkeeper. It's not an example of him going against Cersei.
2. Being forced to make an oath to Catelyn Stark - This is important because up to that point in the story he'd been hammered with the titles of Kingslayer and Oathbreaker, surrounded by people who never expected him to take a vow seriously. It was important to him that she would entrust him with an oath to keep. This is the beginning of his arc as it starts to give him new purpose. It's his second chance to prove that he CAN uphold an oath and be a good person, and even after Catelyn is dead he still honors that vow.
Jaime makes this vow in order to return to Cersei. It's a combination of his honorable actions along with his desire to return to Cersei. It's NOT an example of him putting anything above his desire to return to Cersei.
3. Standing up for Brienne - Sure, he didn't know he'd be maimed for it, but sticking his neck out for someone he barely knew, who was not part of his family and technically was sworn to his enemy's forces is a big step. Even in the show he's shown to be struggling with the decision as he listens to the men take her into the darkness before finally speaking up.
Still not an example of putting honor before Cersei.
4. Negotiating with Edmure - I know you like to bring up this scene because of something Jaime says in it, but the simple fact that he even tries to negotiate and bring about a peaceful resolution is a big step for the character. At the start of the series he's a warrior, always happy to cross steel in battle. Not only is peaceful negotiation a change in his character, it's also a continuation of his oath to Catelyn to not go to war with the Tullys. No one else knows about this oath, so it's entirely his desire to remain honorable that leads him to keep to that oath. As for the threat he makes about the baby and the trebuchet, he never follows through and it does bring about the peaceful resolution that he'd been seeking so I'll count it in the "good" column.
You're being entirely disingenuous here, clearly ignoring direct dialogue of Jaime saying he will literally catapult babies, and do anything else necessary, to return to Cersei. Your continue to ignore this key scene and pretend it somehow either didn't happen, or bolsters your position. It is neither. It's a direct and late-series example of Jaime being all about Cersei, superseding anything else. This scene alone proves my point - because he clearly puts honor below his desire to be with Cersei.
5. Allowing Olenna a painless death - Again, directly opposing Cersei's wishes, but by this point Jaime is no longer her pawn and will act according to a more honorable code rather than acquiesce to her ruthlessness. At the beginning of the story he's willing to push a child to his death for Cersei without remorse, now he isn't even willing to execute an enemy under Cersei's orders and instead goes with a more merciful approach.
No, Jaime DOES NOT GO AGAINST CERSEI's WISHES. You need to refresh your memory on this and many more scenes. Jamie talks Cersei out of doing something else to her. Honorable, but still putting Cersei above all else.
6. Charging Daenerys and Drogon alone - One of my favorite scenes. He knew he was charging into certain death, but with his soldiers falling around him he makes the decision to give his life to try to end the war with a decisive strike. Any notion that Jaime will do anything to be with Cersei goes out the window in this scene. He isn't thinking about her when he makes the decision to charge, he's looking around at his troops.
Poor example. This proves nothing except he tried to kill himself.
7. Joining the fight in the North - As I explained above, this had nothing to do with a promise he made or to protect Cersei. It was part of his personal growth as a character. One who chooses to stand for a cause rather than stand with Cersei.
Exactly - trying to keep Cersei and their baby alive. He goes north to literally be with Cersei, save their baby, and not break his oath. This isn't putting honor above Cersei - this is to save Cersei.