Trying to understand this girl :/

[Suikoden]

As a girl myself, all I can say is ask her. No amount of pondering will get you anywhere. :P

[Deleted]

Just ask your sister she knows alot more of it prolly.

[Ghul]

i think you already got over the barrier of knowing her and even got kiss her already, even if it was just inside of a game, so id say even it isnt certain "love" you definitely have a shot or two to maybe ask her out or something like that. but please dont make the mistake and push her too hard, but also dont be too loose or she thinks you're not interested :P

well its complicated but definitely give it a try, maybe shes gonna be the only gorgeous girl you'll ever get to know this close and you might regrett it later if you dont try it now.

[Deleted]

leme tell ya how i met my GF, we chatte'd, learned eathother to know (you know the drill) then the hard part comes, i said:
im kiiiiinda looking for somthing serious here, not a one night stand or somthing like that, - serious buisness.. (that was tha thing man) and bam, got a GF, still with her over a year after, you shuld try it, works wonder's

sorry for the spelling..

[Paigeyotto]

So because she's 'hot' she has to date guys older than her?Lolwut

[Deleted]

So because she's 'hot' she has to date guys older than her?Lolwut

Dunno that's usually the way it is, hot girls dating 1-3 years older guys (often even more).
I'm surprised it's not like that in your country. There are exceptions ofc but very few of them.

[Deleted]

Dunno that's usually the way it is, hot girls dating 1-3 years older guys (often even more).
I'm surprised it's not like that in your country. There are exceptions ofc but very few of them.

My gf's a hottie and she's 7 years older than I am. Woot for being a exception to the rule.

[v2prwsmb45yhuq3wj23vpjk]

I have this wierd problem, or not so weird, not sure how common it is.

Anyway to introduce myself, I'm a 17, just short of 18 years old and will be graduating in high school next year.
She on the other hand is one year older then me, same age as my sister, and two of them are like really good friends.
One more note about her, quite important one. She's REALLY hot, like half of my friends are envy of me even knowing her.
I'm not a throwaway I guess, but that kinda girls usually date much older guys, and not someone who's even younger then they are.

Well, here's my problem. She's been coming over to my house (to my sister ofc) alot this summer and we talked alot while she was over, and even gotten drunk two times while we played this board-game in which main goal is to, you guessed it, get as drunk as you possibly can. After one of these games we played spin-the-bottle and I even got to kiss her (I probably put too much meaning into it, but just thought I'd throw it out there).

Anyway, ever since I've been often getting messages from her over facebook, for example tonight she asked me will I be going out and where, and just 30 min ago when I came home she was also on facebook, asked me how it was etc. And sometimes she askes me something then after 1-2 replies she doesn't say anything, and when she does say something, it's usually a one-liner so it's hard to pick up conversation with her. Oh yeah and one last thing, probably unimportant, but doesn't matter I just wrote all this text so might aswell write this too. Her last facebook youtube-link song is called 'Just because I don't beg for it, doesn't mean I don't love' xd

Now, irrational side of me wants to believe that she likes me and that I have a shot at her, but half of time my rational side kicks in and I'm like, she'd never date someone like me, knowing that her last boyfriend was 2-3 years older then her, and also how hot she is, she could find just about anyone.

So, any of you have some advice on how I could find out if I have a chance with her at all? :P

Here's how you find out: You go for it. You can still be friends otherwise unless one of you is really strange.

[kcolraWertex]

And then you realise that your irrational side is really your rational and vice versa.

[Dr Morakag]

What can happen:
Ask her out - Yes? Movie? Get to know someone, potentially fall in love. talk all night about each other and things you like. Be together for months, maybe even years with someone you love. Added bonus = Sex
Ask her out? She says yes? movie, get to know her, don't become fully attracted to her, break up. Atleast you had fun with someone.
Ask her out? No? Got internet? Play WoW/watch porn/creep on facebook.

It's better to have loved and lost to have never loved at all.

---------- Post added 2011-08-07 at 04:18 PM ----------

"The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to just love and to be loved in return."

[konikitty]

1. Ask her to hang out alone sometime - movie, walk, some kind of event.
2. Be casual and don't be awkward/overbearing about it.
3. If she doesn't want to date you, try to not be super offended. She has no obligation to be interested in you.
4. Don't put so much emphasis on how hot she is, and how your friends envy you, and how she dates older guys in general. As cliche as it sounds, put more emphasis on her personality and whether or not you think a relationship would even work out. Unless, of course, you just want to bone her because you think she's hot. (Lame.)

[Paigeyotto]

Dunno that's usually the way it is, hot girls dating 1-3 years older guys (often even more).
I'm surprised it's not like that in your country. There are exceptions ofc but very few of them.

United States?
I don't think it really has anything to do with age. Usually just a coincidence, if anything.
Myself personally, I've dated older, younger, and the same age as me. Don't overly care for age (unless they're significantly younger).

[Vasti]

After one of these games we played spin-the-bottle and I even got to kiss her

Didn't see anyone being the immature jerk here, so I might as well step up and fill up the void that was left....
So here goes:

Pictures or it didn't happen!!!!

And now to the serious stuff:
Well I got nothing....sorry....just thought it would be worthwhile to post that oneliner....again...sorry couldn't help myself

[Bwutty]

Slowly is cool. Just not too slow, you don't wanna get "friend-zoned"

I'm sorry but he already is.. If she wanted something off him, she would've done it while they were "drunk" ..
Anyway, it wouldn't harm to ask her.. but do your best not to shake or get your tongue twisted.. Girls don't like people who aren't confident in themselves and in their actions.. :/

[Dahine]

Go for it and girls are like pi you can never really know everything about them

[elgato]

I'll just say this. I am 24 years old, and I still have no idea how a lady's mind works. I know just about the same amount I knew about them when I was 13. My dad is close to 60, and he's the same way. Face the music, you will never know how they work, no one will but them. If you like this girl, go after her. Though realize is may have an adverse effect on your sister. As you said they are friends, and the one thing I do know is that often they have a code just like us guys. And you may know it is against the bro code to go after your friends sister, and it's also against the chick code to after their friends brother. So have fun, but try not to complicate the relationship your sister has with this girl.

[scvd]

My gf's a hottie and she's 7 years old

Fixed for shits and giggles, thank you.

[Oinkz]

With girls you need to say f' it and go for it. But you have to go into it realizing that it may not work out and if it doesn't you can't beat yourself up over it because guess what, ding ding ding you are going to be going to college soon and there are a million hot chicks there. So pursue it if you want but if it doesnt work out it is not the end of the world and if it does you just got yourself a hot girlfriend. Life is all about taking plunges and working with that adrenaline that your body loves to get high off of.

[HowdyDoodiePoodieBootyyyy]

Let me break it down for you real simple-like:

1. If she was interested in you, you would know.

2. The fact that you're not sure means that she isn't interested.

Females like to make their feelings known, ESPECIALLY if they are crazy for a guy.

Move along, nothing to be interested in, ok?

[Nyteyes]

There is no understanding women. Period. Once you come to terms with that, you'll be fine. =P