I love the advises of Vikus... Both made me laugh xD
"Say girl, why don't you come over and wrap them legs around my head"
I have never ever never ever asked a girl out in my entire life, so i think the op is inaccurate.
For me it has always been a mutual understanding and we end up kissing or making out long before we talk about dating. Although, I have had girls use their friends to ask me out before. I have always thought that asking someone out is stupid. If you have to ask someone out, doesnt that mean that your not sure if they like you? If your sure that they like you, then they should already be mutually flirting with you or in very close proximity, and from there you take it to the next step.
Why would you be asking someone out if you don't know if they like you? You might as well ask out every single girl that walks by, and I consider that very demeaning to yourself. "Hey stranger, wanna go out with me? because im so desperate im asking out anything that looks pretty."
I would have to ask out anything that looks attractive to me which would be really stupid, exhausting, and not worth my time. If I know someone already likes me as well, then I take the next move instead of using cheap conversation. You should be able to tell if a girl likes you in that manner.
Some people don't openly flirt with everyone they find attractive, and other people don't have many ways/opportunities to constantly be flirting with several people on a day-to-day basis. After you leave school it's much more difficult to find people that are your same age and that have the same interests as you, and have the opportunity to casually flirt with them daily.
I just walk up and ask them if they want to go out some time.
Maybe I'm wrong and some of the girls here on the forum could respond to that, but I believe that just being straight up and asking them out on a date is fairly sure fire.
Get to know the girl and your new-found knowledge of her should inform your method.
I used this one about two weeks ago on Sept 19th.
and the response I got was:It be a wee o'er a week since last we exchanged signals from afar, so I hope this message finds ye well. I be wonderin' if ye be interested in rendezvousin' at a tavern o' yer choice sometime in the next fortnight or so. Last I recall ye said ye reside near the northern latitudes o' this region, so if ye be in agreement, choose a location within sailin' distance o' yer local port o' call and ******. Afterward, dispatch me the coordinates and an estimated time of arrival and if need be we can make further arrangements.
I be eagerly awaitin' yer response,
Girls love pirates.Ahoy, I be excited to hear from thee. Yer message talked of meeting in a tavern near the port of ***** ey? How does Sunday around the height of the sun work? We shall discuss the where abouts of thee x at a later time when I be by a computer. Have a pirate-tactic day
OP's Avatar says it all... Good luck.
Pull up in your sweet ride and mouth the words and actions to this...that'll get the chicks bro.
-_- seriously now, if you like someone, talk to them like a normal person for a small amount of time, then ask if they want to get a drink. easy as that, no expectations or stupid risk and build up
Can you stop being awesome please? I can't handle it...I used this one about two weeks ago on Sept 19th.
It be a wee o'er a week since last we exchanged signals from afar, so I hope this message finds ye well. I be wonderin' if ye be interested in rendezvousin' at a tavern o' yer choice sometime in the next fortnight or so. Last I recall ye said ye reside near the northern latitudes o' this region, so if ye be in agreement, choose a location within sailin' distance o' yer local port o' call and ******. Afterward, dispatch me the coordinates and an estimated time of arrival and if need be we can make further arrangements.
I be eagerly awaitin' yer response,
and the response I got was:
Ahoy, I be excited to hear from thee. Yer message talked of meeting in a tavern near the port of ***** ey? How does Sunday around the height of the sun work? We shall discuss the where abouts of thee x at a later time when I be by a computer. Have a pirate-tactic day
Girls love pirates.