I play LoL with my boyfriend and we've been playing it on and off for about 2 years (with regular, long breaks in between due to WoW and work). I have around 150 wins in normal mode, 100 in ARAM and done a lot of bot games, but have never tried ranked matches. Mainly because I dont feel good enough, but also because I'm put off by the toxic environment in this game. Whereas my boyfriend doesnt seem to mind the occasional insults and noob-calling, I prefer to just switch off the chat entirely when people start barking at each other. For the same reason I feel very little inclined to do jungling, because I feel I have too much pressure on my shoulders and that people will call me out if I mess up the slightest.
My reason for creating this thread, is because we've found ourselves in a bit of a troublesome situation. Whenever we queue together these days for normal mode, we end up getting matched up against people from diamond, gold or silver leagues with mainly unranked players on our own team. Needless to say, we get stomped almost every single game leaving us both rather exhausted and with little feeling of improvement. For the sake of it, we tried creating smurfs on a different server, and had some fun climbing through the levels again untill we've reached a point where the matches actually challenged us again from time to time (~lvl10). However, most often we end up carrying a game by utteringly destroying our opponents (who're naturally just as frustrated as we are on our mains). I feel like we've ended up in a bad circle of either being underpowered or overpowered compared to our opponents and I really wish I knew what to do.
Can we do anything to change the matchmaking, or how do you guys propose we go from here to improve our game? The last couple of days I've felt like just ragequitting because we're getting completely owned by some diamond/gold player wherever we go. I like studying, so I've always spent tremendous amounts of time going through YouTube guides and videoes to improve our playstyle throughout the last couple of years, and I always read up thoroughly and do bot games on my champions before heading into normal modes.
I guess my question is.. what did you guys do when you were around our level? Do we simply have to keep hitting our heads against the wall untill it breaks, or do you think there's a better way to learn and grow as a player?
Please share your tips, thoughts and ideas as it would be very much appreciated.