I had a similar issue and put it off way too long. When I looked up a guide out of boredom that mentioned getting choco meteor after lvl 50 (instead of using the cactus needle spell) it became a blast again. I also figured out that getting the ram's voice isn't as much of a pain as I thought and that I can do it solo at lvl 50. Still missing all the carneval stuff though and some raid spells (only have Ifrit's ). In EW I really need to stick with it more, as it's great for farming old stuff (especially HW FATEs, sorry to all the sprouts ).