Hello Cuboid,
Thank you for posting and offering some help as well.
Basicly I am not trying to be that friend to everyone. I do have 1-2 people which I am that friend too in the guild. Mainly because one of them is a real life friend and the other is an arena partner. But that doesn't make a huge difference for me.
As for the actual goal of the guild. What I want that goal to be and what I set the goal too is competing in Heroic content with a not fully hardcore mentality. We raid 4 nights a week if we must. And just push as much progress as possible. Firelands for example , we were the (I might be off here) Top 30 on the realm for killing ragnaros normal. Which I think is decent since we have not been around for years but merely months now.
I am capable of removing people from the raid , BUT I do think the role officers are to judge on this as well .... and if we do decide (if the officers even notice it ....
) to remove the person , it is sometimes rather hard to get a back-up guildie in there. Since we usually have only 10-11 online these days. The last 3 (I have a roster of 14 raiders.) are /afk for exams at this moment.