Personally I think you made a huge mistake getting involved with a woman who already had kids.So, I married my wife about 6 months ago. We were dating for roughly 2 years before we got married. She has 2 kids, with 2 separate dads. Both of whom are giant douche bags. Who don't pay child support, nor do they ever see their kids. Anyways, lately I have been finding myself enormously annoyed, frustrated and just pissed off because of how much they just plain don't listen, and how much they disrespect not only me, but their mother as well. Not to mention all the lying, the manipulation etc.
Do any of you have kids that aren't actually yours? How do you feel about the whole situation on a day to day basis? I find it harder and harder to tolerate them each day. Especially when they constantly break the same rules that they are disciplined for breaking every single day. Then they say they know, they just didnt want to listen. I mean, am I a bad person for being so angry all the time now because of how much these kids drain me?
Surely I shouldn't be bringing this to forums like these to find answers, however, I have no where else to go. My wife isn't going to be able to handle a conversation like this, as she is oblivious to how much crap they pull because they are her "babies". I feel guilty because of how much I have to "yell" at them for breaking every single rule we have. I just don't know if I can stay mentally in tact with this constant disregard for authority all the time.
You made your bed. Lie in it.