short hair looks better, hair dressers are evil... so i make a compromise with my self i only go to the hair dressers every 3 months :P
short hair looks better, hair dressers are evil... so i make a compromise with my self i only go to the hair dressers every 3 months :P
You have a job. And in school. If you're paying your way then it's your decision.
Even if you're living at home while in school, like a lot of people do. Then it shouldn't matter. Unless they are too strict. Then there is nothing to say other then get more work and move out. Or comply.
Screw it, he just offered me money in the hopes of cutting my hair.
I refused it, screw him and his backwards thinking forever from now on.
Hmm, parents, just because they feed and such the person, they can put up ANY restrictions? I mean, where's the limit? Is it because parents have certain rules that these rules always in the best interest of the kid or the relationship between kid and parents anything ? I dont see how having long hair can damage anything.
If 19 means nothing, when will he mean anything? When will he be old enough to chose his own hair style - I mean, come on! Its part of his identity we're talking about.
Show us what your hair looks like and maybe we can give you an informed opinion ?
If long hair makes you look like a hobo or something maybe it's for your own good you'd cut it. Unless you are completely fine with people of thinking of you as a hobo on first impressions.
Last edited by mmoc472a5d728c; 2012-11-03 at 01:29 PM.
First bolded part actually means that it is existant, since you said it's not non-existant. ^^
Second bolded part, it's only blackmail if he puts up the request of "if you don't do X then I will do Y", but since you are the one who asked and nothing will happen if you don't do anything at all, he's simply putting a requirement before he agrees.
Thirdly, I would say that yes being 19 years old doesn't mean much, sure you can make most of your decisions the moment you become 18+, but for as long as you live under their roof with them paying for you, they are still in charge for the most part.
I still feel however that they have no say in the length of your hair, that both should be and is completely your decision. As about what to do with the situation as a whole, I suppose there isn't much to do other then either, let your hair grow out and deal with whatever your parents make you put up with, or go with their wishes to cut it. =/
Almost cut my hair
Happened just the other day
It was gettin' kinda long
I could've said it was in my way
But I didn't and I wonder why
I felt like letting my freak flag fly
And I feel like I owe it to someone
'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
Their house, their rules.
My parents always wanted me to cut my hair as soon as it got a bit big... It was annoying, but it stopped almost 3 years ago, thank god.
Just ignore them or tell them to stop, you're not a child anymore, you can make your own decisions, especially if you want to cut your hair or not, and your parents should also understand that it's your style having your hair the way it is, not theirs.
Well, I got HIM to comply.
Got some money after all.
And this money is used to buy birthday gifts so don't go all 'mooching' on me.
Pff...
I'm of the agreement of the folks in this thread that say you should follow their rules. Their house, their rules. Besides, it's not like they're trying to control you in the evil way of plotting "yes, let's piss him off because he loves his long hair. Let us twirl our evil mustaches amdist the background music of honky-tonk pianos! GENIUS!"
In the US, a man with long hair is usually seen with a social stigma that he doesn't care for proper grooming and the like. I know if I were to look out for a job, the first thing I'd do would be to cut my hair. Why? Because for most, it makes people feel comfortable to see familiarity. Different is scary, after all. If I were to guess, I'd say this would probably be the strongest reasoning as to why they're adamant in this.
But, if you really are wanting to keep your hair long, you could always express to your parents that you want to at least grow it out long enough so you can donate the hair to a charity like we have here in the states called Locks of Love, should one exist. Else, just stick with your parents. Besides, the fact that they let you live with them suggests they care about you quite a bit. That's an important thing to remember whenever they ask you of something.
Cut your hair. Long hair is for girls.
You are an adult and can do what you want, but if you want your parents to support you, you should do what they want.
your parents are a "little bit" controlling :/ can't see the fuss over hair issues.