You amuse me... You didn't really ever sign up for anything though. You chose a PvP server because you liked the way it was then, a change was made which you didn't like, fine. However from here on out there is little you can do since you have no power to influence this change. Either you can deal with it, or you can move away from it. I've said it again and again but you seem to ignore it because you don't want to face facts, which was exactly my point with that you seem to have problems with changes in life.
That was the only "point" I ignored because it didn't make any sense at all.
You should really read up on indirect ways of asking for things, it's very, very common in life. Also creating an opportunity for someone to apologize, is asking for an apology...