First cousin marriage prohibited
Arkansas
Delaware
Idaho
Iowa
Kansas
Kentucky
Louisiana
Michigan
Minnesota
Mississippi
Missouri
Montana
Nebraska
Nevada
New Hampshire
North Dakota
Ohio
Oklahoma
Oregon
Pennsylvania
South Dakota
Texas
Washington
West Virginia
Wyoming
Arizona
Illinois
Indiana
Maine
Utah
Wisconsin
First cousin marriage is allowed in these states under the following circumstances:
Arizona- if both are 65 or older, or one is unable to reproduce.
Illinois- if both are 50 or older, or one is unable to reproduce.
Indiana- if both are at least 65.
Maine- if couple obtains a physician's certificate of genetic counseling.
Utah- if both are 65 or older, or if both are 55 or older and one is unable to reproduce.
Wisconsin- if the woman is 55 or older, or one is unable to reproduce.
If you and your cousin love one another, and both consent to a union, then more power to you. I wouldn't stand in the way of your relationship and seek to deny you that right just because I don't agree with it, because I understand the notion that my civil rights do not override yours, nor do yours override mine--one's rights stop where someone else's begin.
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If you want to marry your first cousin then you would right for your right to. AS OTHER PEOPLE IN OTHER STATES HAVE DONE IN THE PAST. First cousin marriages have gone from being illegal to being recognized.
I think it's okay for cousins to marry, as far as kids there is a higher risk of defect, which is why people have an issue with incest TO BEGIN WITH. There is no such risk with me finding a Michael and making him my husband.
You say everyone should be allowed the right but you're against it why? You are coming off awfully foolish.
You notice how the general implication here is "as long as you can't produce mutant incest offspring we don't care"?
It's weird to me because it doesn't come up with gay couples. They can't reproduce. It is simply not possible. They can raise children if they adopt, or have a donor, but there's no potential harm to the children that result from their union.
There is, for first cousins, a higher chance of harmful recessives, which is WHY it's illegal. Because of the potential harm to a future child. And why those laws have exceptions when children aren't a possibility. For gay couples, there's no potential harm to any future children. So you'd think that, at the very least, all those states which allow non-reproductive marriages among first cousins shouldn't have any issue with gay marriage, for the same reasons.
I don't think it's a "moral" question at all.
There's a higher chance of harmful recessives due to genetics, so it should be prevented to avoid future harm to their eventual children, where relevant. Beyond that, we're into "I find it icky but it's none of my business" territory. Same reason I don't think it should be illegal for people to eat avocado, or get genital piercings, or any of a host of other things they choose to do for their own enjoyment that I personally find icky.
I'll take it slowly, because I don't think you understand that you just made his point. First cousin marriages are prohibited in 30 states according to that list you yourself posted(which, coincidentally, doesn't include California... because it's legal there, like he said). It actually lists 31 states, but Wisconsin is listed in the states that it is allowed with provisions, so I didn't count that.
There are 50 states in the United States.
50 - 30 = 20
There are 20 states where it is completely legal to marry your first cousin with no restrictions. With me so far? Good!
You then went on to list 6 states that you are allowed to marry them with provisions, most of them based around having offsprings(the reason for most laws against marrying family members - inbreeding is a serious risk to the future generations if allowed to run rampant).
20 + 6 = 26
So... thank you for coming up with the fact that there are 26 states where it is legal to marry your first cousin, as everyone has been telling you.
"Laws of nature."
Hold on a minute... homosexuality and bisexuality are both observed in nature. So what laws of nature are you on about? Cherry picking people... "I'll take these laws of nature because I agree with them, but that homosexual stuff that's in nature? Nah I don't like it so I will just IGNORE that part of nature."
There is a lot natural in gay sex. I mean there are straight men who like to be fucked by women with a strap-on, do you want to stop these men because of "what I think is right"?
Laws of nature? Oh. That must be why Bonobos apes are casually bisexual, why a significant factor in wolf pack behavior is that a male wishing to join the pack must submit to the alpha male, why many bird species have the males fertilize the eggs, then bring in another male to raise the hatchlings, and why a gene was discovered in mice (who are over 95% identical to humans, looking at DNA) that could, when altered or removed, result in homosexuality.
You keep using the term natural. I do not think that word means what you think it means. And it's not like gays are bending you over and forcing you to have anal sex with them; as such, what does it matter to you how they have sex? (And it's not like straight men don't eat pussy or a straight couple hasn't experimented with anal sex; there's an entire porn genre devoted to that, even)
Be seeing you guys on Bloodsail Buccaneers NA!
Last edited by Dispersedshadow; 2012-12-08 at 11:11 PM.
no your the one being foolish.you think its ok for cousins to get married and i dont.you think its ok for gays to get married and i dont.you tell me im a fool for thinking the way i do,but i think your are just trying to fool yourself.lack of morals is what it comes down to.you only "argue/fight" for gays rights while leaving other groups that are in the same boat "cousins" alone.
lets kick it up a notch shall we?i want to marry my sister and we both get fixed so we cant have kids,why cant we get married?we are not hurting anyone and are not having kids,so what the big deal.dont we have th right to be happy?see its morally wrong to marry your sister,just like gay marriage.
The Supreme Court should uphold the California ban on gay "marriage" because right now most people believe gay "marriage" is an abomination and that's doubtful to ever change(and imo should never change because we have to draw the line somewhere).