'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
A key that can open many locks is a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock
What's your cultural background? It's usually relevant with respect to how this topic is approached.
With that being said, not everyone wants (or even can) get married. I find that most people these days want to ensure that their relationship is sexually compatible. Waiting until after marriage is a risk for that reason.
Uh, when I was 13 I had to get by my own pretty much. The only support I got from my parents were money(Gave me about 230€ / month) to buy food, clothes, hygiene articles and other stuff I could find some use in. Wasting the money meant I had no money for food for the rest of the month.
Pretend you have a key. And that key could not open any door. You would think to yourself wow that is a pretty shitty key!
Now pretend that you're a door. But your door chooses who gets in based on whether they accept the person or not. You would think to yourself god that's a pretty awesome door, shutting unwanted intruders out.
My cousin made a big deal about waiting until marriage. She was just divorced. Want to know why? Because her husband said their sex life is pathetic. My sister's bestfriend made a big deal about waiting until marriage. She was just divorced. Want to know why? Because her husband had a tiny wang. (Of course, she said it was for a different reason, but she told my sister he was only 2 inches when erect.) My coworker's wife made a big deal about waiting until marriage, so he waited for her. Now he's having an affair because his wife only has straight vaginal sex in one position and refuses to do anything else...
Would you ever buy a car that is going to cost you a million dollars in the long run and one that you're going to be stuck with from now until you die without taking it for a test drive first?
Girl: I have had sex with 4 boys & you have done it with 8 girls, still everybody calls me a SLUT & calls you a REAL MAN. Please explain why.
BOY: Very simple. When a lock is opened by many keys, it becomes a BAD LOCK. But when a key opens many locks, it becomes a MASTER KEY!
(lock/key analogy)
So, has anyone come out with that ridiculously fucking asinine saying about locks and keys yet?
In my own experience, I've seen both girls and boys mocked for being virgins. Girls that wouldn't screw a guy after a few dates were deemed 'frigid' or some such.
It's all a load of old bollocks if you ask me. What people do with their own sex lives is their business. If someone wants to wait, good for them. If not, likewise.
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Sometimes you need to let things roll off you like water off a ducks back.
'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
No, as soon as it's younger than 15 (or 14 can't remember) it's considered a pedophile, even if both parties are of the same age. They can both want it at the age of 14 and it would still be illegal. Whether it's correct and good law or not is not my place to judge...but you shouldn't promote stuff that is against the law.
A lot of people assume you would sleep with everyone because you started early. I don't approve of anything younger than 16 myself...but I get where you are coming from.
I still don't think you should promote it on a public forum as sex at a young age goes more times wrong than at a later age because you aren't mentally ready for it in most cases. But again, some people are mature faster than others...hence I said it goes wrong in most cases.
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