This makes no sense to me, good sex is something that can be learned. It is not static like a car, if you have a willing partner they can learn what you like and on the flip side you can learn what they like. Now if it is some crazy kink that needs to be talked about way before you get married.......way before. As for your co-worker he sounds like a bad lover if he is unable to help his wife feel comfortable to explore different things. And for some people anal will never be on the table, men have one too but they don't like for you to even talking about maybe wanting to do them. If a man really loves you he will let you do him at least twice.
I don't really know where to begin with you here.
Why do you keep refering to having sex with a woman as "going for the kill" ? It sounds horrible, and makes it sound like you think having sex outside of marriage is an atrocity and a sin of satan.
Also - there are ways of preventing you from "getting a girl pregnant outside of marriage" - they are called Condoms, and using them greatly lowers the risk of said baby ever being born.
And no - a woman who loses her virtue outside of marriage is not considered a whore. A woman who charges money for sex is, however. Also, in todays society - women who has had sex with 15+ guys might also be called a whore, but if a woman, who loves her boyfriend (but is not married to him) has sex - she is not considered a whore. Or if she's had more than one boyfriend in her life.
There's a difference. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that you're a Christian, or otherwise very religious?
You were good, kid, real good. But as long as I'm around, you'll always be second best, see?
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Oh, and no comment from Xe'ra about how the assault on the black temple was being led in part by the naaru. So was hatred corrupting A'dal's mind too, you pretentious windchime?
- Volpethrope
Just remember that it is your own personal decision. Those people pressuring you now are very likely the same people who influenced your upbringing. When it comes down to it it should just be your desire versus the real potential consequences. That means none of that "shaming the family" nonsense. Don't save yourself for them, and at the same time don't rush into anything because of them. Live your life for you and trust yourself to make the right decisions.
go home church boy you are drunk