Why Do Girls Always Try to Hit on Introverts? How to Deal With This?

[Reg]

Not that hard, albeit i suspect i've always been a mix instead of pure introvert, have cycles of recharging alone and cycles of recharging with people.

Flirting, however, is fun indeed.

I am extrovert to the max. People are intriguing.

[Reg]

That's because many people confuse "yelling and speaking really loudly because you think everyone wants to know your opinion" with being extrovert.

Everyone does want to know my opinion, whether they want to believe it or not! lol

[Mongoose19]

WTF girl hits on you and you have problem with that. Maaan those hipsters these days (or faggits).

[Reeve]

Everyone does want to know my opinion, whether they want to believe it or not! lol

Damn right! And I like people who want to share their opinions with me!

[Reg]

Damn right! And I like people who want to share their opinions with me!

We all have them. Why not share?!

[Kraenen]

these girls are simply teasers. they arent interested in you, they just like making you look like a fool.

[Reeve]

We all have them. Why not share?!

I guess a lot of people are afraid they'll look foolish if they say what they really think. I guess I'm just not afraid of being thought a fool.

[Reg]

I guess a lot of people are afraid they'll look foolish if they say what they really think. I guess I'm just not afraid of being thought a fool.

I think it's the desire to appeal to people. Everyone likes being liked, I suppose. Some of us would rather be liked for who we really are and what we really think. /highfive to us! lol

[Reeve]

I think it's the desire to appeal to people. Everyone likes being liked, I suppose. Some of us would rather be liked for who we really are and what we really think. /highfive to us! lol

That's a better way of putting it. I don't like hiding myself from people.

[Kurioxan]

That's a better way of putting it. I don't like hiding myself from people.

Yeah i guess, although introversion and extroversion seems to be other than just wanting to appeal or being afraid of what others things, to me time to time being with people is physically and mentally exhausting, have to get away, sometimes its the reverse, im tired and need people around, to pure introverts people in general are tiresome and want their private space, but then loneliness kicks in, it is easier to be an extrovert i guess?
Not to mention that our society puts far more value on extroverts, which is tad silly

[Reeve]

Yeah i guess, although introversion and extroversion seems to be other than just wanting to appeal or being afraid of what others things, to me time to time being with people is physically and mentally exhausting, have to get away, sometimes its the reverse, im tired and need people around, to pure introverts people in general are tiresome and want their private space, but then loneliness kicks in, it is easier to be an extrovert i guess?
Not to mention that our society puts far more value on extroverts, which is tad silly

Yeah I'm definitely somewhere in between. My mother tells me that even as a pre-schooler, I was perfectly happy playing in big groups with lots of kids, but I was also perfectly happy playing in a corner by myself.

[superstargoddess]

As a woman, I can say that we all want men that we can't have. This helps prove it. >< :P

[Kurioxan]

Yeah I'm definitely somewhere in between. My mother tells me that even as a pre-schooler, I was perfectly happy playing in big groups with lots of kids, but I was also perfectly happy playing in a corner by myself.

Mhm, we are the same then, its the lucky few who have both ways, although i tend a bit more towards introvert, but still mid ground, love my time alone and love the time with friends so...

---------- Post added 2013-01-14 at 09:58 PM ----------

As a woman, I can say that we all want men that we can't have. This helps prove it. >< :P

whores!

(im joking btw take no offence as it is not meant as one)
we also usually prefer woman we cant have, i guess its the normal human "green is grasser on the other side"
Wait, grass is greener. -.-

[Reeve]

(im joking btw take no offence as it is not meant as one)
we also usually prefer woman we cant have, i guess its the normal human "green is grasser on the other side"
Wait, grass is greener. -.-

When you know you won't be successful from the outset, you don't have to feel bad about failing!

[Needonboots]

"I have difficulty talking to girls/people but they just come up to me and make it easy and carry the conversation and want to take it further, what do I do?"

Is that the jist of it?

[Garnier Fructis]

What the hell? I haven't had this experience, and I've gone through whole semesters without talking to anyone but the professors. Perhaps I'm better at avoiding people than they are at approaching me...

[Komati]

What makes girls talk to guys: Interestingness. If you stand out, in any way, girls will talk to you. If you try to act and dress as invisible as possible it will attract attention.

[Killingifrit]

this is preposterous. women do not hit on "introverts". certainly not at the university.