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    Problem: I'm in a relationship but i still pay for it on the side

    I have a serious problem guys.
    I have a problem with going to brothels.

    I'm in a relationship at the moment of 2 years. And we do it about 2 times a week(at first it was everyday)
    But my guilty pleasure is going to a brothel once every few weeks.
    I use to only go once a month.
    But lately i go once every 2 weeks. sometimes weekly.

    I'm really addicted to it and i dont know how i can stop.
    I can go through the day without thinking about going.
    Then on the way home from work. I'll drive there and go see a woman for half an hour.

    I just want to know is this normal?
    Or is there any way i could get help.
    I am not trolling.
    Im 28 years old.
    Ive been going to brothels since i was 17 but once in a while.
    But lately ive been wanting to go all the time and i would choose going to brothel rather than having sex with my partner.
    HELP ME!!!

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    What kind of community do I surround myself with?

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    Possible solution: Pay your girlfriend instead of getting it for free from her? :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vellerix View Post
    What kind of community do I surround myself with?
    If your going to post here can you post with some feedback,
    I have a serious problem i dont want to lose my girlfriend but at the same time i dont want to stop going to these places.
    To be honest since i went out with my girlfriend i probably visited a brothel over 70 times.

    In my life time i probably went over 150 times

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vellerix View Post
    What kind of community do I surround myself with?
    Not really helping...

    You probably need to make things clear with your partner... something is just not right when you say you're addicted!
    Btw, may I ask if your partner does know that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrj View Post
    If your going to post here can you post with some feedback,
    I have a serious problem i dont want to lose my girlfriend but at the same time i dont want to stop going to these places.
    To be honest since i went out with my girlfriend i probably visited a brothel over 70 times.

    In my life time i probably went over 150 times
    I honestly don't think this is the place to find help if you do have a problem, forgive me but it's very hard to tell these days who is being serious and who is not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Libertarian View Post
    Talk to a professional
    that is what he is doing

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    Elemental Lord Reg's Avatar
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    I've never heard one called a brothel in current times. I feel like you have a time machine lol It's just one of those terms your don't hear very often to describe a place that exists today.

    150 times?! How much does a half an hour cost?!

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    What exactly is it about having sex with prostitutes that you find so appealing? Is it the fact that there's no emotional connection or is it that you get a kink out of it actually being a prostitute?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reg View Post
    I've never heard one called a brothel in current times. I feel like you have a time machine lol It's just one of those terms your don't hear very often to describe a place that exists today.

    150 times?! How much does a half an hour cost?!
    They're called brothels here in New South Wales, Australia, where brothels are legal so long as they're council approved and follow licensing and health and safety regulations.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrj View Post
    I am not trolling.
    Heaven forbid the very idea

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    Oh, it was a Jayburner thread on a different account. I should have realized.

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    No, this is not happening.

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