This expansion has found me in the unfortunate position of bouncing between guilds looking for something that I'm starting to wonder if it even exists anymore. Over the years I've met a lot of good people, and sadly most of them no longer play the game or at least no longer have interest in raiding. The guilds that I've enjoyed the most and have the most memories of fall somewhere in the middle between casual and hardcore. What I mean by this is, guilds that can balance fun, friendly, sociable atmosphere with decent raid progression. These were never cutting edge guilds, these were the guilds that before HM's, often never saw certain content and nowadays would never do more than a handful of HM's but the content they did clear, they had fun while doing it.
This expansion all I've seem to run across is guilds that are so progression-focused that they lose sight of the players behind the toons and socialization during raids is frowned upon or the exact opposite, guilds where nobody cares enough to move out of crap or enchant their gear and they wipe repeatedly to the same simple mechanics with little to no improvement until they just give up and retreat to old content. I primarily tank and I am capable of talking AND doing my job effectively in a raid so I know it is possible. (obviously I'm not talking about people just jibber-jabbering away during a boss fight when people are trying to make important calls)
I realize everyone has their own idea of fun. For some, the super casual guilds that offer no chance of progression but cater to multiple play styles are fun while for others, the hardcore guilds that are more focused on progression than chit-chat are more rewarding. But I know there used to be a middle ground, where chit-chat AND progression could go together in one neat little package. Call me selfish, but I don't want to trade one for the other. So while I debate whether it's worth it to keep searching or not, I ask the community if what I seek still exists or if the middle ground guild is dead and gone.
Edit: Yeah I realize I made a typo in my title, sorry