Originally Posted by
Voodo
You are also responsable for what you say and/or do. If you agreed to someone having sex with you, then you are responsable for that. Stop trying to say they are only responsable for what is convenient for your argument. If they are responsable for their actions, then they are responsable for their actions. If they aren't, then they aren't.
Make up your mind.
First of all, why are you saying "Is it so difficult for guys to" as in "all guys do that"? This is so wrong.
Anyway, moving on... The girl said yes because she got herself drunk, it was a bad decision on her part, you seem to agree on that. A guy who takes advantage of the situation and have sex with that girl is an asshole, but he is not a criminal.
Again, he did not drug her, he did not trick her, he asked her if she wanted to have sex with him while she was suffering from consequences of her own mistake [mistake beeing drinking too much, consequence beeing drunk]. And her, as consequence of her own mistake, did yet another mistake: she said yes. He took advantage of a series of dumb mistakes and bad decisions some irresponsible person made, one those mistakes beeing the act of willingly giving him consent to do what he wanted to.
So, with permission from a dumb and irresponsible person who made a series of mistakes, he proceeded to be an asshole. He is guilty of beeing a jerk, but the fact that she gave him consent from her own will, as a consequence of choices she made from her own will, makes him not guilty of beeing a rapist.
Why can't you guys see that an adult person is responsable for her acts? We are not talking about kids here. If an adult person decides to get drunk, she is responsable for that. If she decides to say yes because she is drunk, she is still responsable for that, she is not adsolved of any responsability all of the sudden because you guys want them to be happy. This is not how it works. You action, your mistake, your answer, your responsability.