Originally Posted by
Cephilia
I find it shocking how many people here think that 13 year old kids are old enough to be completely responsible for their actions. The brain keeps on developing till mid-twenties, with the part that handles consequences being the last one complete. Yes, thirteen year olds try to act like adults, can be manipulative, liars and are often very interested in sex. But guess what? They're still just experimenting, and doing many things because they feel pressured to prove themselves and because most of them are fricking dumb. Am I saying that thirteen year olds shouldn't suffer consequences of their actions? No. Do something stupid, you get a punishment. That's called learning from your mistakes. But it's a huge gap between a full grown, even if immature, adult doing a mistake and a thirteen year old doing one. Should thirteen year olds be having sex? Not really, but they will start experimenting and that's okay. But any adult should realize that the kid is still growing and only starting to form sexual identity, and any adult having sex with them is, in my books, taking advantage of that fact. Yes, she's acting in a very sexualized manner and knows that it'll lead to sex. But she isn't yet capable of understanding the consequences of that. She knows she might get pregnant, but she can't yet comprehend what motherhood would actually do to her life.
Besides, the guy was 41; I could understand late teens, but 41? The girl stripped for him; at this point, any non-retarded adult should be able to look at her and tell that she's clearly not an adult, far from that. With make up and certain clothes, you can look much older. But naked? Get glasses, man. 13- year old might understand exchanging sex for things she can't afford, but being an actual sexual predator? No. The guy allowed a thirteen year old "pull her moves" on him and took advantage of the fact that this kid was stupid and most likely seeking acceptance from an adult. The girl was a indeed stupid and wanted something out of it, but most kids are selfish and ready to do things they don't understand. Thirteen is not an adult as much as they would like to be, and since they themselves will never admit that, it's up to us adults to remember that.